How to be your own man

          We all know that being your own man is not considered from where you study or how much potential you have, becoming your own man there is nothing to do with human social life such discussing people to people or place to place, but we consider to how far did you go in your life, how long do you live with your run-time, so basically we must predict earlier to our self and we must assume how to summarize the end result is going to fit with plan beforehand, one thing you must remember is the more responsibility you take and the more maturity you earn.

          In fact when you can’t live in your own body, you will take more risk by associating with the unqualified people and those people unpredictably will burden you with huge unwillingly problem, to avoiding unpredictable mistake because of making disarray association with unqualified people is not easy, they will find another method to crush your personal life and search your weakness, the first thing you decide is you must expand your knowledge and also make an opinion about yourself, the more reaction you make is going to show you how to walk with your own path without overthrowing someone else’s success, when you always make question and criticize about yourself, you will become a sensible person because you are really sure how to make good judgment and your experience will help to encounter people’s blasphemy.

          In addition, someone who makes resolution in their life every single day, his attitude and personal life has been grown up unconsciously, no matter how hard you do for your life being, there must be jealous people who will turn down your life without mercy, the more you sharp your knowledge the more confident you talk. in the other hand the less you create the knowledge the more silent you will be.

Why I always failed

In this topic I would like to reveal about failure, this is common truth will happen to every human being, most people are failed in the first step because some of them are not willingly to feel the process of journey and they start to imagine the shadow of failure which will happen in the future, and that’s big mistake which often being made by the low-class people.

So in this section we need to alter the low-class people to the different place and help them to accept new idea, fail is like students who spend the time to learn at the school, every day they will receive the hundreds of tests from the teacher in order to upgrade their knowledge.

Before we make a mistake, at least we make a plan to minimize the risk impact from our carelessness we made, so it doesn’t matter when someone makes a mistake, as long as someone knows how to self-control and have another idea up his sleeve.

The amount of failure will not affect to the people who always spend the time to being happy, whether there’s someone is successful or unsuccessful to achieve the target, the important thing is person knows about the self-assessment and always improve the vision to know how far your effort run last?

 The biggest problem in this life is someone has never failed and stop learning and stop believing the purpose of life, I will give you special note “please keeping in mind about the meaning of failure when you already became successful person because one day you will miss the failure and you want to meet with higher level of failure in order to take the higher success level”. Sometimes getting a success 100 %: needs 98 % failure + learning, 1 % optimist and 1 % miracle. As from now, when someone asks you what cause someone often get the failure in this life, you can answer the cause of failure is he just does what he can do and never try to evolve.

How to make our mindset obey to the target

In this topic I would like to elucidate about the mindset’s mystery, as far as I know most people are just doing something they love but they do it for idolizing the money, so the subconscious mind is reluctant to grow up, the main point which can attract the mindset to obey is making them a custody and feed him with the image of number, the image of plan, and the image of figure, to setting the mindset needs your emotional feeling to be participant, then you think about what kind of passion will ignite your mindset?

The power of Mindset usually loves with the attractive object although you are not having it today such as buying the mansion, buying a luxurious car, buying home theater, Etc. object also has incredible power to attract your mindset in order to live together in the future, the object will show how to get there, and depending on what you want to embody it or not.

The mindset shouldn’t dedicate to money, but the money should dedicate to the mindset, so do you find any difference? When the human mindset is following the money, the human mindset has never generated the new mindset because the money has restricted the human’s creativity and the human’s vision, so if it‘s happening, the human mindset will do the order in the same way, same visually, the same habit and the same result (such number of money; 20$, 50$, 100$ but the same currency is always have same appearance and has no added value within), so the conclusion we can learn from the example mentioned is the human mindset and the money’s dignity are equal.

But if the money follows the human mindset, the human mindset will start to evolve and make a mistake in order to get better result in the near future, once the human mindset has enhanced to reveal everything they need, the money will follow to the human mindset endlessly because the human has owned the bank to produce some more money. So the conclusion we can learn from the example mentioned is don’t buy an egg but buy a chicken because chicken has value to lay eggs on the other hand an egg can’t create an egg, so the egg is valueless, we can represent an egg = money, and chicken = human mindset.

Everything has beauty, but not everyone sees it

           Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share about the topic "everything has beauty, but not everyone sees it", the main reason why not everyone can see a beauty in this life because they used to live with appraisal, promotion and recognition, people who are treated such thing is most likely a desperate person or a lifeless machine because some of them are not used to cultivate their mind with appreciation, self-motivation, respect and self-reliance, in the daily ritual, the desperate people can't see the beautiful life because they tend to receive more reward than they can give something useful, man who can't see the beautiful life because he stays lingering for too long in the kid zone, so whatever they do, they play a safe game, remember this note; the main cause is not situated at what the desperate people see, but the problem is coming from lack of curiosity to fulfill their spiritual needs, as normal human being, we must create a contingency plan in order to avoid the unwanted condition, like the wise man said "when there is nobody with plan, one plans to fail"

  Don't let your emotion is making a total mess to your life, you need to control your focus at the top priority, even though you can't see beautiful thing around you, all you need to do is finding the credible people that you trust the most, you can contemplate for moment about the ritual you did in the past and you can prepare the worst preparation in order to counter the unexpected setback in the future, please beware, sometimes fixed mindset and stumbling block will shut down your vision when it’s trying to make new opportunity. The main reason why the majority of people still can’t detect the beautiful life because they often express “why I have to live like this?”, “why am I going to do this?, this it isn’t for me, the water too cold, the sun too hot, it’s going to hurt me, “I don’t like this”, “I don’t deserve it”, based on the statement like that, it describes that people always look for blame and excuse when they can’t find the explicit answer, I myself have ever experienced with the unpleasant thing, what I do to rescue my healthy mind is not looking back what I had done in the past, furthermore, I do soul-searching and I create something I haven’t done before, I keep this ritual over 3 years, finally I find my life mission "paint the world's color with peace".

Remember this note; sometimes the biggest problem and the biggest solution are situated at your dream zone, you need to make yourself self-motivated, don't let your negative emotion will drive you to go somewhere that you don't take it, every beauty in life can’t be created with our weakness and our limitation, every beauty already been there before the human is born on earth, the beautiful life offers many rewards that people don't understand it, the same thing like the purpose of problem's existence, every problem is not designed to hurt people's life, but problem is designed to offers the beautiful solution, without facing new problem, people can't see the difference between solution and problem, remember this note; the beauty will not come out suddenly without any triggering effect, it just likes the rainbow, it will come out after the storm is gone.

You can’t go back in the past and change from the beginning

  

          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share about the title; “you can’t go back in the past and change from the beginning”, the meaning of that title is no matter how tough your effort or create any mistakes that you made in the past, you couldn’t change the ritual in the past because your time was obsolete, the moment you have made in the past had been locked forever by the time, remember this note; you will create a new life when you exchange your free time with new creation, you can't break the life's rule by changing your past moment, the past is too dangerous and frightening, that’s the agreement between our time and our life’s rule, when the life says “when you exchange your time with me, don’t ever hope to return your time to yourself because I will return to you what you deserve and what you believe”, the main idea; we are not allowed by God to exchange our past time with the future's time because it will hurt us if we take that decision, all we need to do when we get the disrespectful treatment in this life is writing what you believe, prove what you believe in the reality world and stop hoping back what you have given.

There is no meaningful story in this life when we are to be told by history to stay the same in the same history track, we must create an evolution or we will deliberately destroy our opportunity, sometimes our weariness in the past was very needed to learn the untold story which is provided by the future's time, means, we can’t strengthen new foundation of our lives if we just remember the oldest history, the main reason why we need to forget the oldest history for moment because the oldest history can't change our future, our vision will be locked by the history if we repeated it and put it into future's time, it’s very dangerous thing, maybe you think history is not hurt anymore, but repetition will make you hurt yourself, please take this note; making the same mistake more than once, it’s not mistake, but it’s your decision, you can’t leave that mark before you break the chain of your habit, don’t just believe what you know is good, a good thing you believe will never make you better if you produce nothing, good thing is the ability to leave the comfort zone without complaining, you must produce something in order to create the real change, the prosperous zone will never appear when you are satisfied with the end result.

 A real change is very needed because the future time always creates the new opportunity to keep us approaching in our destiny, we can’t approach our future time when we stop learning and we also can’t change our past time because our time was obsolete, stay walking forward is the best option to keep improving our lives, when you do a good thing, it will return to you without hesitation, when you haven’t tasted the successful story till now, the problem is not about what you give, but problem is coming from your time usage, when you don’t use your time wisely, you lose opportunity, the more you produce nothing for your free time, the more you are stayed away from your luck.

Life hurts, Nature heals

          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share how to understand about life and nature's characteristic, both are very unique, both have similar purpose but they have different job, nature is designed to fulfill what human need to survive and life is designed to give what human deserve, that's the simple of definition, so if there is a new problem is happening in this life, not because human want to make it happen, but it comes from the human's final attempt accumulation, life has no ability to hurt human, but only human can hurt, the main reason why human are not aware that they can hurt because every human has a reptile brain system where it teaches how to attack when they get stuck in the unprotected situation, human tend to fight when they don't like with the situation they already get in, now the question "why human tend to hurt themselves in every single day?" because they have fought with the life's rule and human don't want to accept any changes, in fact, life is designed to give what human deserve, life is designed to be like the automation machine where it will proceed what human did in the past.

 Human and life are tied together in the same arena where they will fight each other, whether human like or not with the life treatment, life always give a challenge to human in order to know whether human can survive or not within 24 hours, the main reason why human need to fight with life because life will kill the human's hidden potential, so, if human don't  fight back and don't practice with their own hidden potential, as a result, human will get a new trouble and they will get trapped with their closed mindset, nobody knows when the fighting process between the human and life will end, if human are tough with the life's challenge and keep surviving with the fullest self driven, life will give what human deserve, here is my special note; don't let life will give you too much the darkness because you will obsess with negativity, such as doubt, fear, anxiety, indignation, etc. Starting from today, don't focus on the result because life will give you the magnificent result when you already defeat your own ignorance, remember this note; life will give human with two option; looking for inspiration or looking for desperation, human can’t defeat the life when human lack of resourcefulness and lack of repetition, human must do a soul searching every day in order to awake the spiritual intelligence, the great loss will happen in this life not because human will die, but human stay die while they are still breathing on earth.

This life will hurt when human keep staying in the past moment because life keeps moving forward in the future, we don't have much time to look back to repair something happened in the past, on the other hand, nature will heal the human's mind when human keep working on their creativity, so there is no excuse to blame why life threaten human so unfairly, as i told you earlier, the power of creativity will be given to human when they can follow the life's rule and the nature's law, human can’t build the intellectual capacity when their satisfaction’s capacity is bigger than their intelligence capacity, the human's biggest enemy are lies in our satisfaction and our ignorance, both will gnaw away our creativity and destroy the human's potential when human lack of practice it, the nature will show the healing process when human succeed to obey with the life's rule and succeed to integrate between the nature's law and the power of self-awareness, here is the important note; when you apply the nature’s habit into your daily life, your life will be working to you and it will give you access how to create the unlimited wealth.

Go where you feel most alive

          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share about the topic "go where you feel most alive" means, when we feel insecure, we need to go somewhere place and look for the scenery which may heal our soul from the source of pollution, such as the negativity, crowded people, noisy sound, overworking, etc. Sometimes we can't choose type of neighbor who will surround us, now here are several options you can choose when you feel weird; the first option; don't follow the other people's lifestyle, remember this note; when we follow other people's lifestyle where it teaches us to be someone who we are not, the environment will pushes us not to feel something most alive, if you see in the reality, not all people can create peace because they let the unknown circumstance gets into their lives, as a result, they feel easily irritated, some people try to go on vacation and some of them to do busywork, but all rituals are not enough to help them to feel most alive because people's inner world have detected a serious problem, now let me share several points you need to do in order to create peace and making you feel most alive, the first point; you avoid the subject where it can influence your mind to look for self-satisfaction, the second point; you need to plan for long term target that it compels you to pursue it no matter what it takes, remember this note; good environment can support you at the fullest when you take bigger responsibility than 99% people won’t take it.

          By taking big responsibility sounds not easy, but if you can train your mind by managing your expectation and exceeding your productive habit, wherever you go, all environment will empower you to gain momentum every day, remember this; when you will feel most alive, it's not because the momentum, but you already create new good environment, besides that, don't let your expectation is higher than your capacity because it can invite the poor quality emotion, if there is bad circumstance is happening in your time travel, don't try to beat it, all you need to do is stop caring about your expectation where it didn't deserve you to keep it, in my insight; if you get trapped with expectation or bad circumstance, don’t just go to somewhere you don’t belong, you need to find a place where it can help you to connect between what your soul needs and what your goal needs, at this phase, don’t prioritize to fulfill your desire because not all desires can harmonize between your reality and your peaceful heart, here is for your note; if the environment can help you to resurrect your hidden potential from very long sleep in the subconscious mind, that's your triumph.

 Some people hate to make a new change, whereas life will hate when people can't adapt with a new change, that's the clue how to manage our expectation, we can't survive when we lose our enthusiasm, this life will collect the human's resources when people don't use it, we shouldn’t get angry when we are pushed by life to change something from ourselves because life will provide something new when we dare to leave the unproductive ritual, starting today; please stop cursing what you have and stop comparing what you don’t have with other people who have what you don’t have, be thankful with gifts that you have been granted by Almighty God because His gift will create your resources to be alive.

When the root is deep, there is no reason to fear the wind

          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share about the power of root, if you know behind its hidden potential, all human problems will be converted into solutions, why it would be like this? because root is having consistency and unstoppable characteristic, the root knows the life journey will be difficult, so it will grow as far as it goes, there is no reason to fear about the problem because the root believes about its potential rather than life's journey, the same like the human's faith, our root of faith is much stronger than the problem’s size, wind is like the problem, our capacity will get bigger than the problem as long as we don't stay at undeveloped mind and keep working like the tree's root, here is note you need to remember; wind is designed not to destroy the tree’s leaves, but it is designed to test whether the tree’s root is strong enough or not to endure the wind’s blowing, if you apply this philosophy to your life, I am sure you will feel relieved because this philosophy will guide you how to create the new luck from your activity and also this philosophy will guide you how not to deal with the undetected resources which may risk your life, if you don’t apply with the power of root into your mindset, your power of faith will be destroyed with your own ignorance, don’t let it happen in the reality, before your power of faith will be gone, you have to make the artificial emergency plan and think about the utmost problem you want to solve, if you have this kind of habit, your spiritual intelligence will grow and minimize your fearfulness's side effect.

As above, so below

          You have to keep your faith growing in order to resist from the fearfulness’s assault, don’t be afraid with your fearfulness because it will disappear by itself when you keep cultivating your power of momentum, sometimes our intelligence can't work optimally because our root of faith loses its desire when it's dealing with our absolute expectation, you have to remember this note; the more you deepen your root of faith, the softer your problem will be, don't think it so naive, if you possess the strong faith, it will influence your mental intelligence and emotional intelligence to grow and you will keep fighting till the end, here is my insight; don’t stay lingering for too long in the rest mode because your will lose the power of momentum, your root of faith must be cultivated with the nature’s philosophy and you have to create the sense of higher purpose to excel your wisdom, I just want remind you once again about the power of root; the tree's roots have never obsessed to grow, although it has no imagination, it has no motivation, it has no ambition, it has no self-esteem, nevertheless, they keep growing because it defends its existence from putrefaction, if you ponder about the root philosophy, I am sure you get an unconditional success in your career more than what you imagine.

Starting from now, don’t fill in your imagination with the picture where it can influence you to stay casually in the one place and stay with the same target more than one year, you need to keep your existence growing like what the root does, every day you have to become a different person that you admire, don't just behave like the limited edition stuff where it can't survive at any circumstance, if you are curious about the nature’s philosophy, the nature will heal your mind, heal your pure heart, heal your habit and heal your rest of your life, if you work like the tree's roots, you will not stop learning to grow your potential because you understand that life is not the kind of place where it offers the easiest challenge, the greatest career in life doesn't offer the great motivation or any reward, but it offers existence, if you can work optimally not because you need the self-motivation or greatest reward, means, you can defeat your biggest enemy where it lies in your soul, here is my last note; if you keep growing like the root’s principle, the obstacle ahead will become the nutrition for your imagination.

No one is really busy, it all depends on their priority list

He prioritizes to extinguish his burning pant, he is not busy but he is in the extreme urgency level

          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share how to recognize the human’s activity, as I reviewed some people are very proud with their busy weekday activity, some people are busy with unproductive habit, some people are busy spending their leisure time to their hobby, some people are busy by watching other successful people, some people are busy by planning the financial demands, some people are busy by working at company until they get pension, now what's the critical point from their activity? are they feeling better about what they do?, to answer that question, we need to think about the long term period they have spent, if they just do it for pleasure only, if it's is true, in opinion; they need to stop it because it will not increase their willpower, my question to them; have they ever considered about what their future wants? If this kind of answer has not yet been answered, they will get a personal series trouble and they will have the undetected problem for everlasting, we need to consider about this question; how much the time do we need to create the future? If the activity can create the big difference and the big influence within 5 until 15 years later, that is our best time investment because our future has been created between those periods of time, we must be inspired with those periods or we will get the uninspiring job.

          If we talk about busy, we shouldn't connect between our activity and money first because there is a clear distinguish between the price and the value, you may hear the phrase "the price can't buy the value, but the value can buy the price", means, we must focus on our strength because it can increase our self-esteem and the value can do something than what price can't do, the price can't teach human to survive in the long period of time because the price only teaches how to magnify self-satisfaction whereas the value teach human how to possess an attractive personality, dignity, and how to increase the capital, starting today, we need to rewrite our priority list because not all busy activity can be considered as productivity, we must differentiate between how the machine works and how the human's resource works, that's very important thing to be understood because our future has been at the stakes, remember this; our biggest enemy is not about financial problem, but our enemy is our ignorance about reason why we are still alive, everything what we hear, everything what we see and everything what we feel, all its function will be asked by God through us.

Habit and self control will determine where your ultimately willpower going

          Life is not talking about how you are doing at your busy week, but life is asking you how you can endure all pains, responsibility and suffering during you are on earth, I just want to remind you; if you can handle your pain, suffering, rejection, setback, unacceptable, patience, or the discomfort thing you have ever felt, don't get stressed about it, all bad treatments are good for you because it can be used to prepare your next best season, sometimes the most valuable thing that life gives to human is usually used to make differentiation between your past and your future, if your future has drastically changed, you are not busy, but you are doing productivity, but if your past has not had the differentiation with your future, you are busy but eventually you produce nothing, remember this phrase, “what you habitually think largely determines what you will ultimately become” the powerful forces needs the power of urgency from our time investment, that's the key how to make the life ultimately works.         

Life is too short to live other people’s dream

          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share how to have fully fledged responsibility with your capability, you must to know that life is not talking about all rituals, habit or the favorite thing you enjoy with it, but life is talking about how you prepare for something you have never reached and how you run your own life design, we all agree that we are life’s architecture, but the question is "does everyone maximize their potential in order to run their life journey?",  life is not simple because we don't know how it works, but life will be more difficult when we prefer to live in the complexity between other people's dream and your dream, now let me explain why people's lives run ineffective because most people love to work with the easiest thing and people don’t dare to embrace new risk, this kind of ritual psychologically gives an advantage to people but it offers a greatest fearfulness in the future, why? Because they don’t educate their intellectual capacity by taking big responsibility, remember this; when there is no big responsibility, there is no power available for servicing the human’s need, when there is no power available, there is no ready potential which it can help human to solve any problem, now let me explain the main problem why people don’t dare to take big responsibility because they tend to focus about their territorial satisfaction area than they focus to use their curiosity to unveil about the future’s riddle.

Remember; the quality of your philosophy will guide you to decide what best thing you will do and your future begins depending on what you prepared in the past, at this phase, we must beware about what we believe because our faith will absorb something invisible, our happy life comes from the clearest goal we want to achieve, our faith is like the center of all authorities, the human's faith will work optimally when the individual person has own dream and live with it, if there is no concrete dream plan, we will live with uninspiring story, don't let it happen, the uninspiring story usually can't give support to what the human's soul wants, whereas the inspiring life story can strengthen the human's mental condition, good mental has ability to cure itself when it’s being hit with the problem whereas poor mental has no ability to cure itself when it’s being hit with problem, the strong faith comes from the nature, honesty, justice, dignity, spiritual intelligence and undying passion, if people don't possess them, people's lives will be tortured with any bad circumstance, life is basically neutral, depending on what people think about their time, if they can use their time so efficient, they can prolong their activity by targeting a new dream project, but when people can't use their time so efficient, they get desperate, sometimes fear becomes willpower when we put ourselves in the critical condition, we shouldn’t act casually when there is critical condition because time will never step backward.

Life will be shortened when we don’t have any focus on the big picture we created, or life will be shortened when we struggle with something that it doesn't deserve us, we must ensure about the career we choose because not all the things we can trust, sometimes we must create our dream project in order to measure how long our capability can endure and how we can maximize our hidden potential?, if we can't apply our hidden potential, it's not caused by our intelligence, but we still lack of curiosity and lack of enthusiasm, that's problem, one more thing; don't let we make a false judgment about what we can do in our career, If we put our false judgment to our own responsibility towards the dream project, our expectation will grow and we psychologically follow where our expectation begins and we will immobilize the power of dream, starting today, we need to avoid the easiest thing that we emotionally don’t need it because an ease is greater treat to progress than any hardship, we need to pursue the hardest thing where it can develop our significant value.

You must change what you are sowing to change what you are reaping

          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have good day, today I would like to share how to change what we are sowing to change what we are reaping, the main reason why we need to change what we are sowing because the result will be returned to us based on the accurate calculation, we can’t deny that reality, when we do a good deed to others, the good shall be returned to us, when we do the evil to others, the evil shall be returned to us, it's law of nature, based on the nature's characteristic, nature can heal the human's mental condition when they change the purpose and life will hurt the human's mental condition when people resist the law of nature, now we already find the main problem why people can't get prosperous living because they don't change what they are sowing, starting today, no matter how tough our lives, we shouldn't escape from reality, we can't change the reality but we can change what we are sowing, the more good seeds we are sowing, the more we reap than we expect, that's the simplicity of old way of life.

          Now we can detect why the major problem can't escape from people because they don't break the chain of habit, that's greatest importance, when we don't prioritize how to make the life works, life will not run optimally, the same thing goes with the plant growing time, the plant will not blossom when there is no cultivation strategy, when we only think about what we are reaping, life will not provide what we need because we don't have any chance to build something, we underestimate about our time zone, that's hereditary problem, remember this note; every human has time zone, it will start calculating the human's resource development when people take action consistently and it will stop calculating when people don't take action, that's the key to understand how the life works, basically the time zone can be used to monitor how human can utilize their skill to manifest something from imagination into reality, if we behold at the law of nature such as “the law of cause and effect”, the life says "don’t bring me what you need, but bring me some good values to me, such as discipline, courage, make a good service, unrelenting faith, dream, consistency, commitment, and many other good things, when you already give some good values to me, I will work for you, trust me", that's life's work ethic.

          This life doesn’t break its promise because life's system is designed by Almighty God, sometimes God will put little bit the sense of fear in your heart in order to insist you by cultivating your major skill for building the future, now the question is "what level your urgency?", when you don't want to create the artificial emergency plan, you will waste your effort and time will cancel the development process, now the human problem is not only talking about what they are sowing, but they still don't know how to handle their willpower, it is caused people lack of curiosity, they need the powerful force to awaken their sense of willpower, remember this; the human's willpower can't grow when there is no powerful forces from the critical environment, that's the key, when the critical environment has been adopted into the human's daily life, future will give the unimaginable wealth.

Do it now, sometimes later becomes never

          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share how to focus to do something that it means to you, as we know many people have many targets in their career, they spend their time to learn something, they want to get promotion, they want to get recognition from other people, they want to get respect, etc. But unfortunately, they don’t realize that the word "want" is the part of a toxic incantation, they should change from "want" to become "what makes I deserved it?, that excellent advice to self, sometimes the word "want" is just part of demand of something and it doesn't tell someone to make new decision, but if we use the sentence "what make I deserved it ?" is the kind of self-demand to fulfill the goal requirement, the more someone creates self-reliance, the more problem he gets, self-reliance is the the sign of luck, when someone knows he will get luck from something great, he will prepare something for it sooner, here is the best question to create a luck ; “why do I need to finish it now? when we use this question, Our brain system will work optimally rather than it usually does, remember this note; our activity will not create the different result when we just demand someone or something to satisfy what we want, we must create the priority list for what we want to fulfill.

 Remember this clue; the more we create the priority list, the more we insist ourselves to make a better strategy and we can avoid the unproductive activity, we can't insist ourselves to grow better when we don't have any goal, a great goal can educate someone to do something extraordinary than someone who has no goal, when we urge about something we want to finish it, the sign of miracle will happen, the miracle will not happen when we act casually about what we are going to do, the more we spend more time to postpone, the more we lose our enthusiasm and we lose our desire value, in fact, the enthusiasm is the switch where it can awaken the human’s willpower and also it can help human to pull the new opportunity from the future, besides that, the enthusiasm can help human to shape a new vision and creativity in order to create a new future, in my opinion; the main problem why most people can’t get what they really want in the rest of their lives because they have spent their leisure time by waiting wake up-call and waiting the opportunity from other people, so, my opinion towards it, they don’t have a good philosophy and they lack of willpower.

Starting today, we must prioritize something bigger than our expectation because our past doesn't need us and our future really needs us, we need to prepare our skill and let Almighty God uses our masterpiece and our inborn skill to collect new opportunity, the more we get opportunity, the more we deserve to get what we really want, so if we want to get better career in the future, we must change our priority to the urgency list, imagine that the bad circumstance will happen to reality, when we train our mind with such condition, we will not dare to postpone something in our priority list, finally the word “later becomes Now”, if we don’t give a design to the future about what we really want, we will get desperate and we will lose our willpower, that’s the key how to create a better future, don’t forget to create the artificial emergency plan because it can help us to monitor the progressive result.

Overcoming loneliness in marriage

         Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have good day, today I would like to share about the topic "Overcoming loneliness in marriage", the main reason why I choose that topic because many couples feel alone although they are tied in marriage, if you ask me why many couples can't overcome their loneliness in marriage because they expect too much about the advantage of couple's ability, remember this advice; we must realize the  purpose of marriage is to complete couple's inability, not to demand more than couple's ability, at this moment, I would like to share some several tips how to overcome loneliness in marriage, hopefully after you read this article, you can do self-introspection, here is the first tip how to overcome loneliness in marriage: fix the way of communication, meaning, you need to offer what your spouse wants to hear something, sometimes you need to forget your egoism and start to offer your ability to your spouse, here is the second tip how to overcome loneliness in marriage: add the quality time with spouse, for example; you only have a free time 5 hours per week, so you can offer the favorite place where your spouse wishes to go there.

        Here is the third tip how to overcome loneliness in marriage:  be curious about what’s your spouse’s major interest, make sure you know well about what is your spouse’s major interest, if you know more about your spouse’s interest rather than your own spouse, you will be valued as romantic person because you invest your time to find your spouse’s interest, starting today: don't just focus how to prioritize your self-indulgence, but rather you service your spouse's emotional need, here is the fourth tip how to overcome loneliness in marriage: self-care, meaning, you don't too concentrate how to make your spouse is happy, you need to have me-time to reflect on what you did in the past, you can engage your activity as long as it can increase your good feeling, self-care will benefit to you and you will always receive from self-care, remember; self-care is not the same with egoism, self-care is protecting yourself from your own expectation or your bad mindset, egoism is doing something more to yourself and eliminate your sense of caring to what your spouse feels, my last advice is learn, understand and save your emotional feeling, then you save your spouse's emotional need, if you aren't happy about yourself, how can you offer your ability to your spouse, the lack of service can inflict the loneliness in marriage, hopefully this article can give you an insight, good luck.