Social anxiety disorder

unconditional headache has potential to make someone dead

          Today I would like to share how to recognize about social anxiety disorder, the reason why I say like this because there are many people are getting involved with social anxiety disorder, this problem is not caused by external environment but the problem is coming from people’s mentality, remember; those people who suffer about social anxiety disorder in their mentality, they tend to avoid the crowded place and they will stay away from new comers, so every time they meet with new circumstance, they consider as big risk and they are afraid, now I will let you know about the main reason why social anxiety disorder attack people’s mentality because they had been becoming a victim long time ago by unfairly treatment from rude people and yet they hadn’t found the right people in their circle zone, so the victim would feel lonely, unwelcome, depression, unmotivated, unworthy and feel insecure, now the question is “what will you do if victim is part of your family?” I am sure you will feel sad and unpleasant about it and you may start to call psychologist to heal someone’s mentality disorder.

great sadness will create dissolution of concentration

Please remember; we don’t have control to heal someone who has a social anxiety disorder in his mentality, the victim only needs to be familiarized with nature and the right people to take care of his mentality's growth and the victim needs to be socialized with psychotherapy program, during healing process, we don’t let the external issue will create the victim’s consciousness being interrupted, the first thing what we should do how to heal the victim is “don’t buy drug, but we give victim with full attention, by that it means; we will treat victim with discipline mindset program, that’s the method how to reduce the mentality’s social anxiety disorder, here I would share about the external factor which is making someone got the social anxiety disorder in his mentality, namely the victim often meets with the rude people during his living journey.

mental social anxiety disorder

The second thing what will we do when we meet with someone who got the mentality social anxiety disorder is giving him an empathy, means we will take care about victim’s daily routine activity, so every single day we need to give our best gift to victim such as teach him how to select friend and teach him how to create the resource of happiness, the third thing we must do if we want to help people who got the mentality’s social anxiety disorder is keeping the victim away from the music tone, the reason why I suggest such thing because music has potential to create the subliminal message and it’s affecting victim subconscious mind.

mental disorder will create irrational thinking

 if the music tone has sad content, it will influence the victim's subconscious mind to get sadness and music tone will overburden victim's mental disorder, music has no potential to neutralize human's mentality disorder, furthermore music tone will block the relaxing motion between the subconscious mind nerves with conscious mind nerves, good therapy method we can offer to the victim is inviting him to go to the flower garden for gardening purpose or inviting him to go to his most favorite place in nature reserve to make unforgotten moment with nature, hopefully this article will help you how to heal victim’s social anxiety disorder in his mentality.

Halloween in psychological

          Today I would like to share how to learn about the Halloween, the reason why I choose that topic because I have heard many people spend a lot of money in order they celebrate the Halloween event annually, but now i will give you different perspective about it, I will let you know that side effect of Halloween event, if you review for moment about the horror movie, almost horror movie is adopting the story from ghost, and ghost is not part of human's lives, ghost is always bringing a fake promise or treat if you learn deeply about it.

           Here i will share the different perspective about Halloween's event, Halloween is not telling about the human’s peacefully live, but it tells about the other creature such as ghost, black magic, etc. we must agree based on logical thinking that there is no benefit if we rely on black magic or related with ghost, when human is passed away, they can't be resurrected in this world, no matter how strong we insist a ghost or a dead body to return in this world, it’s not going to happen, it’s useless, we can’t live side by side with the dead body, ghost, black magic, or something like that, in fact a ghost’s existence will create bad influence to humans live, it can create the negative mind and its solely intended to attack humans serenity, furthermore ghost has no entitled to fulfill human’s lives, please remember; ghost has no meaningful idea how to help human to make prosperous lives, ghost uses human's desire to break the natural law and ghost will give human about misleading purpose in life.

Ghost only gives human with fake promise

Please note; ghost is not considered as other significant life, every ghost has own responsibility to worship the rule which being asked by Almighty GOD, ghost’ is just waiting the eternal punishment from almighty GOD after the judgment day will come on earth, so there’s respective responsibility between human being with ghost, please remember; ghost doesn’t need something from human’s necessity because ghost knows human can’t create something better like what ghost always creates, I will remind you why humans need to stay away from ghost because ghost had brought a destruction long time ago on earth before human being has been created for the first time.

 So I would like to remind you again; Halloween is not considered as the human’s activity, but ghost’s annual party, they have own rule how to celebrate the party, here is the important note; human’s instinct doesn’t exact precisely like ghost’s instinct. Ghost and human can live side by side on earth, i recommend we don't make relationship with ghost like what we did relationship with other people, ghost doesn’t have good intention, it will betray us when we start being greedy, that’s all what I share to you, and I hope this article will help you how to live peacefully.

Eagle in psychological

Flying eagle

          Today I would like to share about Eagle’s characteristic, the reason I choose that topic because there is something great within Eagle’s habit, as we know that eagle is well known as top eater chain, it’s carnivore, Eagle can fly over 200 km/hour rather than a common bird and Eagle’s speed is very fast, it can swoop the prey by making acrobatic movement, sometimes Eagle can swim into the water when the prey is swimming beneath the water's surface, eagle is always becoming top predator because it’s always being different and it always learning from failure from time to time, as we know that eagle has transformed becoming a new eagle after 30 years old, after that eagle needs to survive without hunting the prey because the claw and beak are falling to become blunt and Eagle needs to wait the regenerating process at least 3 months to reborn until they are ready to hunt again.

eagle is trying to swoop the prey

          So what lesson we can learn from the eagle’s living? The first thing what we can learn about eagle’s living is they are staying calm while they are seeing the prey’s location from faraway distance, Eagles don’t need more time to make explicit decision about where the exact location of the prey because they always believe about skill and strategy which it’s usually been used to hunt, besides that eagles believe with natural system when they start hunting, that’s major time, so as human being we need to live in the major time like eagle's living, if we want the universe’s rule follows us, we must start to follow the eagle’s principle, for example; we can discard the inessential thing in our past memory such as bad habit, please note; we can’t make better living when we don’t give an explicit decision, we can't make better living when we don't ever try to do something we never do, the key is bring our unique skill to this life and give our good philosophy to the universe’s rule.

           Eagle’s living sometimes needs to be alone when they are start hunting, they don’t like to hunt with other folks of birds because they know and believe all preys are living beneath in the predator's authority, although Eagle can make living in big group, they always share remaining of the prey's body to the other folks of eagles, here is the specialty of eagle; they can fly over higher in the sky rather than the ordinary birds where they usually fly over the sky, so as human being, we are unique creation, we are better than eagle’s philosophy but all human must consider themselves like a student, Eagle is the best predator because they always do what other birds won't do, as human being, at least we can serve something good where other people 99% won’t do, that's make us well known as supreme justice maker, if we keep doing that, I believe we will create an extraordinary gift to others and we become a great sage.

What to do with Stumbling block

stumbling block is just notification for your change

          

          Today I would like to share how to make different thinking, the reason why I choose that topic because there are many people don’t know how to behave positively when they are seeing problem, they consider problem is just stumbling block within their daily routines activity, so this article I would like to share how we must do before stumbling block is going to blockade our future’s journey, at the moment let me elucidate the method how to eliminate the stumbling block, the first thing we must realize that stumbling block can injure our good feeling if we repeat it every day, we know that there are many obstacles in this world are being trapped for us, this world wants us to make good preparation if we want to crush stumbling stone, this practical  will help us how to make a growth mindset, if we have a growth mindset, we can change from the impossible dream becomes possible dream, we only need one touch of our valid decision.

Stumbling's sign

I will remind you there is no dangerous obstacle will determine our future because every obstacle is designed to test your truthful decision, not killing your enthusiasm, now I will give you question, can you mention how much distinguish between people with fixed mindset and people with growth mindset?, the answer is the difference came from the law of attraction, that is the most powerful decision when we want to differentiate between growth mindset and fixed mindset, people who have fixed mindset just want to attract money whereas people who have growth mindset just want to attract the golden ways how to build a money bank, that's it, I am really certain every decision we make, it will create the unconditional love feeling and this feeling will help us to create visionary within our mindset, if keep studying with visionary, our decision becomes unbreakable, I know this decision needs practice and needs a positive vibes from the life circumstance, but if you really want to make great change in your life, you must do something you have never done before, that’s law how to make positive vibes and it can be used for attracting the law of attraction.

use stumbling block as stepping stone

 Don’t let your stumbling block will remove your attention about your future plan, your law of attraction will help you to make different thing in the different days, so I suggest you to train your future plan by getting relationship with nature law and you take as much as you can about positive vibes around your circle area, if you can’t meet with positive vibes within your circle area, please get out from it and find something which is making you get inspired a lot, if you do not doubt about your promising action, you can draw your future within your time now, and don’t forget one thing, “don’t let the pleasant feeling will make you feeling comfy in short time period, but create the unpleasant feeling to make growth mindset and use it to change your future and attract the law of fabulous happiness in your life”.     

Life will not last forever but your good deeds will last forever

Life can grow up your skill, but money can't

          Today I would like to share about life and deeds, the reason why I choose that thing because there are many education system don't ever teach to the student, if we talk about life, we can represent a life like a fruit seed which is planted to the soil, this representation is used in order to make you understand easily about it, now we can use life is represented as soil and the fruit seed as human's skill, there is rule before you plant the fruit, "if you want to reap the fruit in the autumn season, you must start to sow the fruit seed at the spring season and don't start to sow the fruit's seed when the autumn season is coming, it's not good time for planting's season because the autumn season is good for harvesting, not for planting", here is the message; before the winter season is coming to your time, you must plant the fruit seed in the spring season with good knowledge, open minded, doubtless, discipline, nurturing with ceaselessly, curiosity, decisiveness, self-esteem, consistency, perseverance, love, sincerity, patience, honest, diligence and commitment", that's example of role model you need to apply into your life, all those valuable natural characteristic are good deeds and it can help you how to make your career is success, remember this note; everybody has a fruit seed in human's mind and we need a life to be a proper place for sowing it, so in that place we can reap the fruit (creativity, skill, imagination, and idea)

Life and death are lies within human's mindset

          if you want to evaluate about your life journey, you can reflect to the natural life habit, everyday this life will give us an option, namely developing or die, by that it means, we will taste about happiness when we develop our opportunity and we will die our opportunity when we stop developing our philosophy, our skill and many other skills, that's main reason why life requests us to learn something new, remember; we can't determine our destination by hope, but we can determine our destination by constantly pursuing about what we really want in life, here is the time signal that will give you an idea how to rectify your own opinion, life is represented by past, present and future, when life lies in the past; means you must learn new thing and don't trust your past experience, when life lies in tomorrow; means you need to plan something good in today before tomorrow, you study how to get happiness today before tomorrow, you study how to get wealth today before tomorrow, you study not to worry about tomorrow, when life lies in present; means you need to use your power of focus and power of faith to make decision, here is the truth; time signal is designed to help you focus about what do you want to do and what you don’t want to do.

Ascending life is caused by human good deeds

            You can’t use your past experience to become your life guidance because every single day there is always opportunity or new lesson to guide for your life journey, so all you need to do in this life is keep learning and be curious child how to keep seeking about the truth, the main reason why we keep searching about the truth because truth is something that can't be created or can't be produced by human, the reason why you are not allowed to use your past experience as your life guidance because your past experience will be obsolete once the time keeps moving forward and your past experience always keep moving backward, so we don't have much time to rewind our past story because we can't produce a new time, the conclusion; we need to create new life experience as good deeds in order to face the life's tough challenge within our restricted time.

life journey phase

If you are not ready while the life’s tough experience is coming, you will get regret and you will lose everything valuable, the reason why I say such thing because you only repeat what you know, not trying to know what you don’t know, if you want your deeds is more valuable, be great curious role model like children’s imagination where children always learn something new although they know nothing about it, in my opinion; adult is too skeptical, here is the key how to have tough mentality; do something that makes you feel pain of discipline every day, what I mean is you create your own pain, not because of your boss or teacher’s demand, but you create your own lifestyle, "when you feel pain today, you will get stronger tomorrow", that's the life's rule, remember; when you are doing something that make you sucked, you will become new guy every day and your life will never be the same again.

Life is always knocking us down

Making qualified journey in life is not easy and also it's not simple but life will be worth when you know how to handle, we must be ready all the time although we are not ready to face unpleasant situation, the reason why we must be ready all the time because life is trying to knock us down when we stop evolving or stop learning, so we can't represent our life story to somebody else because everybody is entrusted by Almighty God (Allah) to write own destiny, if you want to escape from the life's tough circumstance, you need to create good deed until you no longer needed to live on earth.

Always deliver more than expected

          Today I would like to share about the power of giving, the power of caring and the power of love, the reason why I choose that topic because there are many people are wanting more, desire more and demanding more than they can afford, remember; people who always expect higher reward than they can deliver of something benefit, they never have good chance to get the power of giving from miracle of life, the main reason why we must have the power of giving because life is designed to give what we deserve it, so in this article I will widen people’s gaze about how to build self-esteem through human’s habit, human's attitude and human's mindset, now I start with human’s habit first, the main reason why I put human’s habit is the top priority to be learned because habit will control our activity, then the unlimited power comes from habit and emotional intelligence is born from attitude, if people want to build product at the first time, they must train their mindset, their attitude and their habit to deliver bigger value more than their expectation, that's life's demand to make us living better.

If we see about the human’s social life recently, the majority people are only thinking about the daily needs, self-satisfaction and how to earn money, in my opinion; that’s how life will end the human’s hope, the reason why life will do the cruel thing because humans are eager to staying with the same standard and humans are reluctant to change for the future, here is for your note; life is not teaching how to enjoy life like someone is going to spend money and spend time with free of charge, if we keep doing that habit for too long, our future will be killed with procrastination, laziness, ignorance, doubt, and negativity.

The human’s Life is like clay, when we don’t learn how to cultivate the clay’s shape, our lives will be ending like clay; shapeless, worthlessness, insecure and useless, another the word of clay is represented by creativity and idea, when I review in the society's life, very few people think how to build dream because they are too concerned with the money and they just train their mindset how to earn more money, remember this; when they forget about how to upgrade self-reliance, money will follow the human's value and when people follow the money value, human's value drastically goes down because the money value decline year by year and it never grow up, that’s main reason why life really hates when people put their last hope to the money because money value will never help humans to grow up skill, here is the purpose of life; nurturing something isn't exist to be living and showing its existence to give benefit.

deliver a service more than expected

Here is the note; opportunity will follow something alive and opportunity will approach the completed existence, I give you example to make you understand easier; opportunity is represented by honey bee and flower's blooming is represented by the human skill, when the flower is blooming then honey bee is approaching, once the flower is not blooming yet, the honey bee will never approach it, that’s principle of life, the lesson we can take it namely; when humans never practice skill, humans will never get opportunity.

How to make the miracles work for everybody

          Today I would like to share how to make miracle work for everybody, the reason why I choose that topic because many people lost their miracle because they intend to be ignorant and they always demand something bigger rather than maximizing their capacity, in this article I don’t want everybody will put the blame to the life system, most of them forget that life is always neutral, means it moves based on the directional stability, life system can't be controlled by human being, besides that, the life system will give the best respond to humans when humans have something like what universe possess, means you must have possessed the universe's characteristic such as; discipline, consistency, courage, evolve,  patience, commitment, dedication and many others good characteristic, so before you attract something powerful from the life, you must train yourself how to become an attractive person who has more than one skill, that’s requirement you need to make it to welcome miracle, remember this note; miracle will provide the biggest reward when humans shows the signs of the uniqueness, the more unique you are, the more miracle will work for you, the miracle won't work when you are eager not being unique person or you just follow other people's resourcefulness, so you must concern and practice about what you have, not concern what you don't have, the more you demand something that is not your own right, the more disappointed you will be. 

Miracle is like the strongest and the fastest signal in the world, I will give an example to make you comprehend better; imagine that human’s skill is represented by the cellphone's 2G signal and the miracle is like 4G signal, when you lost your cellphone's signal, then you will try to reconnect your cellphone’s 2G signal to achieve 4G signal, then you realize that your cellphone's signal wave isn't strong enough, so based on the representation above, we can conclude that the main problem is not coming from 4G signal but it’s coming from your cellphone's signal because your cellphone's device doesn't support 4G signal, remember this note; no responses doesn’t mean your cellphone hasn’t received response, but the circumstance says 4G signal is too strong and unreachable, so your cellphone isn't ready, in the human's life, it's has the same condition, when you realize your qualification can’t fit with the opportunity, don’t blame the opportunity, but you need to upgrade your personal qualification until you become valuable person.

When I was kid, I started to understand why my life pattern was stagnant, then I found the problem, so the problem was "I didn't know what should I do when I saw the miracle", means I taught myself how to be ignorant, here is for your note; when you want to make your life pattern is changing, don't spend your time to wait something great without having much resourcefulness, when you keep waiting, you just prolong your feeling of disappointment, the miracle will not come unless you succeed to change your belief system. Remember this note; if you want to attract the miracle's attention, you need to be great contributor, besides that you need to ask about yourself "what the miracle is important to you?" when you don't know how to answer it, you will never get the power of miracle.

The meaning of life is not simply exist or survive, but achieve

          Today I would like to share how to identify our life journey, the reason why I choose that topic because most people like to keep surviving rather than achieving new level in life journey, the main problem is satisfied mindset, many people think getting enough is none compare with others, most of them consider going to work can answer the meaning of life, in fact we will definitely lose to get more than we deserve when we don’t welcome challenge in any aspect in life, when we don’t keep practicing our skill, we keep losing the opportunity because opportunity always welcome progress, not welcoming the same story, we must challenge ourselves to accept new difficulty because life system is always progressing, we need to race with life or we will be defeated, if we just repeat our life history, we will become history and we can’t meet with new opportunity because every opportunity is designed to meet with someone who is busy to cultivate his masterpiece.

Achieving something is more important than existing only because making progress can invite the miracle of life, remember this note; if we just exist on earth without having purpose, our lives are like doll or the statue, if we decide to make living or surviving on earth, our lives are like the animals or plants, if we decide to plan and try to achieve big dream, we always get welcome from new opportunity and new challenge. that’s basic difference which can explain about the main reason why not everyone deserves to get opportunity from Almighty God (Allah), if you wish life is easier, you will not get better, so you must train your mindset first before you train your skill because the right mindset can protect your skill from negativity and great skill can kill your hope in the future if you don't train your right mindset with new challenge, here is for your note, negativity is coming from lack of resourcefulness and only right mindset can protect your craft from negativity and don't let negativity will seize our opportunity because opportunity is unpredictable.

Although we have a freedom to create everything from nothing existed, we have big responsibility to receive new risk which it can’t be represented by other creatures such as animal, mountain, earth, plants, sea, stone, snow, rain, etc. when I observe about what humans desire, there’s another problem in human’s life where they don’t want to seek it until now, namely; self-identity, means many people still are not using their supreme curiosity level to seek the information why human must exist on earth, if we know the answer, our life will never be flat and our life will be stronger and will be different from time to time.

You are given this life because you are strong to live it

life can guarantee that human capacity have the most fearing power and most powerful rather than other creature's

          Today I would like to share how to know about the truth of life, the reason why I choose that topic because I want to convince you that life has given us a guarantee that our potential are so powerful rather than insurmountable problem, but unfortunately not everyone will accept this game of life, some people discourage themselves because they think their problem are bigger than their capacity, most of them think this life system is unfair, uncontrolled and cruel, here is for your note; the major problem in life is not coming from the life’s system but the problem is coming from the human's inner pain, there are two kind of pain, namely people’s lack of resourcefulness and inequality in the human’s social life.

           Now you know the reason why pain of life had been created at the long time ago, I will give you an explanation for your daily note; earth, heavens, mountains can’t create something what human can do because they have limited resources, only human can survive with insurmountable circumstance because humans have unlimited resources, by that it means, the guarantee had been granted from Almighty God (Allah) to humans being long time ago, if you consider your life is so mysterious or more surprising, i am sure you will practice your mentality's skill and you will prepare your masterpiece, if you think tomorrow will be the same ending like yesterday’s event, as impact of it, you are unable to see bright future tomorrow even though you are having many days.

The key how to discover the meaning of life can be determined on how you feel about tomorrow, if you think tomorrow is not mysterious or it can't attract your good feeling, you will be pushed to repeat your life history and you don't have any chance to level up your new life journey, but if you think tomorrow will be different, your mind will create new determination and you will start to do something what you haven't tried before, if you are excited to welcome tomorrow, you will not linger too long within your standards because you are busy to practice your best skill, remember; when you start new day with different subject, different decision and different idea, tomorrow will create your new future, new result and new story.

The universe will arrange the best gift for you if you prepare your creation, your craft, your desire, your practice and your discipline, those are requirements are needed to welcome tomorrow's challenge, remember this note; the most important thing to welcome tomorrow's time is accepting the truth, learning the unpleasant thing and keep practicing although you complete with the little progress, if you are sincerity to accept the reality, you will not be easy to feel offended because you appreciate with progress result and you trust with process, only the ready person who can welcome the tomorrow’s challenge.

If you keep practicing your strength today, tomorrow you will be stronger than yesterday, don’t just welcome tomorrow by repeating your yesterday’s story such as doing your work with the same subject or use the same standard of knowledge, if you just repeat the yesterday’s story in today's time, it has the same meaning where you are not working for future, in the end of the day you will not get a chance to welcome tomorrow, if you don’t sow something valuable today, you can't reap the reward, this universe is too big and it has unpredictable power, if we don’t maximize our curiosity to learn about the universe system in order to promote our creativity, we always become history, not being future person.

Go out there and prove them wrong

          Hey smart people, howdy? Today I would like to share how to improve our skill by getting out from the satisfaction zone, the reason I choose that topic because many people justify what people say without confirming whether the information is correct or not, I just remind you that feeling of satisfaction always haunts the human’s passion and idea to grow because satisfaction rejects new change, the reason why feeling of satisfaction rejects new change's existence because satisfaction are overcautious about tomorrow, here is for your note; our biggest enemy are lies in self-satisfaction, self-righteous, blaming, making the grand assumption and justifying the other people opinion without confirming whether it's true or not, those are stumbling block where it lies in our mindset, this life system doesn't require those mental disease, but this life needs human’s solid decisiveness and life needs our unwavering faith to go out from our satisfaction zone, remember this note; satisfaction zone is always telling people to do the same thing and making people being afraid to face about their own fear where it doesn’t actually exist, so that's big challenge where it is provided by life in order to value which type of human who will take responsibility.

stop bullying other person and start appreciating

Go out from your standard doesn’t really matter as long as you know how to endure the life pressure which is embedded in your capacity and you must know how to handle your limit, sometimes we don’t know this life also has planned good thing beyond our fantasy, all we need to do is not waiting the plan, but keep learning about the scope that you are excited so much to learn, then observing about other people’s experience whether it's bad influence or good one, but be careful when you study about a new subject because not everyone around you will accept about what you do, sometimes they will put the insecurities opinion about what you do and they will use it to defeat your philosophy, only the indecisive person will prove that success can be chased by embracing the education degree, in fact greatest success can be attracted by becoming the attractive person and bring more valuable in the market place.

 Before you prove that other people’s judgment go wrong about what you do, you need to contemplate whether the activity you do now will enlighten other people’s knowledge or not, the biggest revenge in life is not making massive action but how you invest knowledge to as many as people, sometimes we need to race with life because only life will tell the truth about your standard of capacity, life will measure how much progress you make for future, when you make progress about your capacity, as impact, you will not get satisfaction because progress will make you get stronger, if this life only gives you feel satisfaction, you will make the setback in every aspect in life, remember; satisfaction only shapes your capacity less strong to face the difficult problem, so you don't need satisfaction but you require the truly happiness about what you do now in every day, happiness doesn't destroy your privilege or decrease your inborn ability.

 Only satisfaction can destroy your happiness, but if you can differentiate between satisfaction and happiness, you always become champion, but if you can't differentiate between satisfaction and happiness, you can't see bright future because happiness is telling you how to get self-motivated, increase your inborn skill and how to challenge your enthusiasm every day although you will feel unpleasant or setback, whereas satisfaction is shutting down the all potential which may approach you such as your dream, your idea, your creativity and your privilege.