The power of love and forgiveness

   Hi, good readers, How are you? Today I want to share an interesting topic, namely "The power of love and forgiveness", The main reason why I chose this topic is because not everyone applies what they get from feelings of love,  If we explore further, most people will do something for the sake of desire, but not all desires are able to create love, "The power to forgive" refers to a person's ability or power to forgive others for mistakes, injustices, or hurtful actions. This involves letting go of feelings of anger, resentment, or hatred towards the wrongdoer, and may also involve giving a second chance or healing a damaged relationship. Forgiveness can be a very difficult act, but it can also bring peace and healing to both the forgiver and the forgiven.

Creating feelings of love and forgiving others' mistakes is a process that involves self-understanding, empathy, and constant effort. 

 Here are some steps that may help:

 1. Recognizing Your Own Feelings: Be aware of your feelings of anger or hurt. Acknowledging these feelings is the first step towards healing.

 2. Empathy: Try to understand the perspective and circumstances of the person who made the mistake. Knowing the reasons behind their actions can help in forgiveness.

 3. Remembering the Good: Focus on the good things the person has done and their positive qualities. This can help reduce negative feelings.

 4. Talk to the Person: If possible, communicate your feelings honestly and openly. This can help resolve misunderstandings and rebuild relationships.

 5. Accept That Everyone Can Make Mistakes: Remember that no one is perfect, and everyone can make mistakes. Accepting this reality can make it easier for us to forgive.

 6. Meditation or Prayer: Spiritual practices such as meditation or prayer can help calm the mind and open the heart to forgiveness.

 7. Focus on Your Own Healing: Sometimes, forgiveness is more about healing yourself than the other person. Focus on your emotional well-being and how forgiveness can reduce the burden of negativity in your life.

 8. Taking Time: Forgiveness is a process that takes time. Give yourself space and time to heal without feeling rushed.

 9. Professional Help: If negative feelings are too much to overcome on your own, consider seeking help from a counselor or therapist who can help you through this process. 

 With practice and patience, feelings of love and the ability to forgive can grow and develop within a person, forgiving mistakes can be very difficult because it involves various deep emotional and psychological factors. Here are some reasons why forgiveness can be a challenge:

 1. Emotional Pain: When someone hurts us, the emotional pain experienced can be very deep. Overcoming this pain takes time and effort.

 2. Sense of Betrayal: If the person who hurt us is someone we trust or love, the resulting sense of betrayal can make the process of forgiveness more difficult.

 3. Anger and Resentment: Strong emotions such as anger and hatred can hinder our ability to view situations objectively and forgive others.

 4. Feeling of Unfairness: Forgiveness can feel like ignoring or trivializing the wrong done, which may feel unfair to us.

 5. Hurt Self-Esteem: Other people's mistakes can hurt our self-esteem, making us feel belittled or unappreciated.

 6. Fear of Being Hurt Again: There is a fear that forgiveness will make us vulnerable to being hurt again in the future.

 7. Difficulty Overcoming Trauma: Some mistakes, especially those involving trauma or abuse, can be very difficult to forgive because of their deep and lasting impact.

 8. Ego and Pride: Sometimes, our ego gets in the way of the forgiveness process because we don't want to appear weak or accept that we could be hurt.

 9. Lack of Empathy: Difficulty forgiving can arise from an inability to see the situation from the other person's perspective and understand their motivations or difficulties.

 10. Environmental and Cultural Influences: The social and cultural environment in which we live can influence our views on forgiveness. Some cultures may view forgiveness as a sign of weakness.

 Although difficult, forgiveness is an important step to healing and personal growth. By understanding the reasons behind difficulties in forgiving, we can more easily face and overcome these obstacles, hopefully this article can help you how to create harmony in your life, good luck.

How to recognize the power of focus

   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic "how to recognize the power of focus", the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone can master their power of focus, besides that, new technology and new modern civilization often educate people not to use their power of focus to find their specialization, the main problem why people can't recognize their focus in their entire life because they don't know who they are and they don't know what they need to do on earth?, to answer that question, we must know our history before the earth had been created, Almighty God says in Surah Al A'raf (7) verse 172 "When your Lord took from the children of Adam from their loins, their descendants and made them testify of themselves (Lord is saying to the descendants of Adam) "Am I not your Lord", they said "Yes, we have testified", lest you should say on the day of resurrection "Indeed, we were of this unaware", from that statement, we as human had been created by God in order to remind about our mission on earth and we had been asked to sharpen our focus by finding new information through God's creation on earth, such as knowledge, the universe, the law of nature, the animals, the plants, the mountain, the sea, etc.

to recognize our focus, we must create new mistake until what we have done is guiding us to the right place

  Basically life is not discussing about what every human wants to do, but life is talking about the human's mission on earth; such as promoting the kindness and prevent the evil, we can't finish that mission before we recognize our focus, remember; the power of focus comes from the human's clear mind, enthusiasm, knowledge, curiosity, attention to the detail problem and life experience, the power of focus will get bigger when we give our big attention into the problem we want to learn deep, the more we feel enthusiastic about the problem, the more we can disclose the mystery behind the problem itself, now the question "who send the mistake to us?" I am sure He is not human because He knows the answer, if He sends the mistake to us, means, He wants to test our capacity and He guides us to maximize our potential until we are ready to run the mission on earth, basically the power of focus is given to reveal the truth behind God's existence and how to recognize the human's mission on earth, there is no other reason to answer it, we can't get the power of focus if we just misuse our resource to enjoy the pleasure on earth, that's strategy how to maximize our focus, besides that, we need to adapt with unpleasant moment if we want to get the power of focus, then we must practice our curiosity about the truth and test our knowledge over and over again until we understand the purpose of life, "the more we practice, the more we get new mistake, the more we get new mistake, the more we get the God's grace, the more we follow God's grace, the more we approach to the benefit about God's wisdom, if we recognize God's wisdom, we pass the life trial" remember; if we pass the test, eventually we will get what we deserve, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

How to know our positive energy

   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic "how to know our positive energy", the reason why I choose that topic because many people get negative reaction easily when they see problem, as we know that positive energy can’t be collected by freewill and positive energy will be active when you give something you love to other people without expecting any return, positive energy will not come to us when we just sit down and do nothing, even though positive energy is unlimited resource, we can't get positive energy when we always focus what's leaving us in the past and we don't focus what lies ahead, this is important, positive energy can't be attracted when we focus to find what's missing in our life, although you have earn a lot of money, money can't create positive energy, remember; if today you can do something better than what you did yesterday, you literally create positive energy within yourself and your positive energy influences you to create new lean of understanding and learning through your own creation, if you can't create something you never try before, you will dump your positive energy into negative energy, if you want to be resourceful person, you must give up your unclear desire and start to serve what other people need.

If you ask me "where does negative energy come from?", it comes from our bad reaction towards everything we notice, some people think that failure is part of negative energy, it is not true because failure happens when you stop trying permanently, as long as you can breathe and you can think of something, you have a new chance to change your life through making a little progress and doing self-reflection about what went wrong about life, we must remember there’s nothing happen if we just hope and doing something like what we did yesterday, we will never change our life if we create the same habit like we did in yesterday's habit, I have told you "positive energy always talks about new creation and novelty value", e.g. you want to create something you never try before, you find a new topic which is distracted to your attention and you want to dig in about that topic, you join the seminar class where it discusses about your daily problem, you go to the new place where you are never been there, you read a new book which can give you enlightenment and new understanding, please don't repeat a sense of complacency if you want to recognize your positive energy because there is no positive energy if you stop increasing your creativity, every day we must innovate our resourcefulness and every day we must renew our daily habit with what can increase our awareness level, we can call "every day is new day, new enlightenment, new innovation and new hope", I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.   

How to know your potential is working

            At the first thing i would like you to know about the potential is something existing between your dream and your memorable experiencing you made in the past time, when you want to develop and deep searching to what you learn and what you intend to go there, that’s we call potential, so the potential is hiding to your innermost feeling that somebody else can’t touch it except yourself. That potential always exists and will give a hint how to create your life path, potential can work for you when you succeed to know what your clear desire is and potential often transform into your energy which will make you think as a survivor. 

             As you know that The human mindset commonly think how to get satisfaction, keeping satisfaction will not get you through into your deepest potential, the satisfaction make you think you are dwelling in this world instead of riding your potential, the potential knows where you are going and when you are striving, the potential will stop working in two condition, the first part is when you die and the second part is when you feel satisfaction too often.

            I will share one thing that you should remember is sometimes the potential is not working when we stop doing consistently and also the potential will abandon us when we just do what we can do today, basically the potential wants to be cared so much like the human positive characteristic, we need to speak with our soul and our voice, we can train them until our potential agree that it will work for us, there’s no instant program to build the potential, it needs much progressively.  

           The potential doesn’t do anything better when we only cheat somebody else’s benefit and also we rely on somebody else’s capability too much, considering that circumstance we can’t activate our potential energy by doing as copying machine, so the potential just needs our dream we made it the past and our positive mindset, when we succeed to create the positive mindset, the path of dream will create for us, finally the power of potential energy will work for us such as balloon.  

  If you can find something where it can develop naturally to yourself, then your potential is really working, you have to optimize what you develop within yourself, you must practice your potential until it can solve other people's problem, it takes time, but when you can work on your potential, you will not feel working anymore because you can enjoy with the process.

Why the imagination is very important

            In this topic i would like to discuss about the imagination, as you know the universe is created by God, before He created something great in million years ago, He started to use his imagination to create everything he liked so much, there is one of valuable God’s power to be given to human being is the power of imagination, but He restricted Human’s imagination in order to measure how far the human‘s imagination is working. The classification of imagination itself can’t be ended in addition the Imagination itself can be formed into several the ultimate Power namely creativity, love and focus.

            When the human being is created at the first time, the human being is given the power of imagination in order to make Human being wants to search the God’s creation within living things in the universe, if we compare between the universe and the power of imagination, imagination is beyond of the universe which it is including the whole of space, stars, planet, etc.

            The world is imagination is boundless, there is no end and there’s no restricted time, so if Human being want to know about God, they should not try to use their power of imagination because it’s too wide to be imagined, the part of boundary of human’s power is time, so when someone tries to imagine and making statue to represent about God’s existence, it’s absurdity. There is only one way human are allowed by God to use the power of imagination is making purpose of life.

            When the purpose of life has been created by human being, so that human being would create everything such as making of happiness with their own way and furthermore once the imagination has been formed into the specific thing, there is something great will be born, we can call it as an idea and talent. That’s the next ultimate power will stay within human’s soul.

We can conclude why the power of imagination is beyond at all :

-     The first is the imagination will help human to use that power to create an idea.

-  The second is the imagination will help human to make something from what they imagine.

-     The third is imagination is created by God in order to make Human believe to what they imagine about God’s creation. The fourth is the imagination has no end and has no restricted time, only human is limited

The Power of urge in life

                  In this section I would like to discuss about the power of urge, it contains about how you make a deal with something important to what you considered, normally some people will not consider something to be important thing because they are not feeling enthusiasm to their life but if they are feeling urged, they will take the risk and do everything they need in order to achieve the target.

Life is not talking about how sooner or later, life is always running urged as quick as the time is running, but unfortunately very few people understand and also some of them intend to consider everything they do is part of playing game, some of them do for the funny thing, some of them do for getting a promotion from the company they work for, they do for cheating people’s benefit.

The people should learn about the life’s system when they want to live with their purpose of life, life’s system is running from the start and never be late to the end because a life believes the success is not coming from the urgency, the success is coming from every little progress being made In the past without being caught by human’s rush hour.

The power of urge will influence the person who loves so much about time, he will do everything as long as the time will not be delayed running, the power of urge will give you the progression report in everyday circumstance and you will not find any loss although you are failed in making some progress because the power of urge will not give you any loss but in return it gives you hope unknowingly

When you decide to use the power of urge in your life, you will have more gurus in your life who will give you feedback and you will be receiving the teaching of life from time, time will not pursue you to complete everything, but time will give you an opportunity over and over again. The more opportunity you create the more success you will gain it, the less opportunity you create the more problem will approach you, so I would suggest you not to wait the opportunity from somebody else or society but create the opportunity by using the power of urge in your artificial daily activity.

Why I should possess the positive energy

            This topic I would like to discuss about the critical of positive energy which is living through human body, the positive energy is part of verity, when you activate it, you can search something bigger and more important than your life, the positive energy can’t be avoid from its existence, but once you avoid it, you will immobilize your locked potential, do you know why because there is another energy will give you the disastrous life, we call it the negative energy, and furthermore the negative energy can’t attack you physically but it will make you disbelieve to what you possess namely your potential energy , the negative energy is neutral, it will be activated automatically when you fail to manage the positive energy  within yourself, the effect is the more negative energy you will receive and the more you create yourself as imprudent.

            In this life there are always the positive and the negative, and when you fail in earning the positive energy, there is the place which will give you a home schooling, in there God will give you a problem in order to make you keep surviving to earn the positive energy, and also you will learn something different between the negative energy and positive energy, human being is given a logic in his mind and sensible in his heart, so that 2 biggest power which are given by God for human’s sake.

            One thing you should remember is the positive energy can’t be obtained by starting to feel the satisfaction because it’s making you feel undeveloped, the positive energy must be possessed by pushing yourself and identify where your passion flows, when you want to merge between your passion and the positive energy, you must pull as much as the positive energy from the universe. When you succeed to possess the positive energy from the universe, you can create the particular desire and possess the great perseverance in order to drive you go to your big dream. don't let your positive energy is drained because that's ultimate power you should possess, when you are at peace, that's the only way you can recharge the positive energy, Good luck.

How to activate the willpower within

In this opportunity I would like to reveal about the willpower, maybe you often to hear it and also you possess it but unfortunately you can’t utilize it when you are facing a problem, it sounds ridiculous and you will start to confuse and will blame the problem, basically the willpower is the kind of ability to control what you think and measure how big effort you make in order to achieve something you admire it such as ambition.

How much effect does your tough-minded bring effect to performance? When you can convince yourself to answer that question, you will see any opportunity which is coming, the tough minded averagely is about 40 % will make you really definite about what you are doing, 60 % comes from your certainty, once you are not hesitate, you will execute it perfectly without any disturbance.

The most disturbances averagely 100 % comes from the habits, so your habits will determine where your potential energy is going, the willpower knows what you really want, but your habits is part of power will make synergy between your perseverance and your tough minded. Mostly the synergy doesn’t happen because one of them is inactivated, the world News stated 60 % people are insisting to inactivate their willpower because they don’t know how to put passion into willpower, so they are just doing some irrelevant matter as if they are busy doing something, but in the fact, they are doing nothing.

When the willpower loses its structure and it can influence some people to doing some irrelevant thing, practicing is not enough to activate the willpower, but it needs consistency in good habits, when you have succeeded in activating your willpower, your energy will flow unstoppable and finally you can maintenance the ideal success in everlasting.

What is the important about the perception power

In this topic I would like to describe about what’s the important about the perception, as we know the perception is part of human’s power to sense any part of the ideas where it is coming, also the perception is often to be used when group of people are holding the meeting in the convention hall, the perception power usually can detect when there’s object which is connecting to human’s sense.

 The human’s perception often helps human to create the imagination in order to let them be informed about something will happen in the near future, but not everyone can detect his perception because it’s need a lot of practice with his gesture such waving the hand or showing the face to show the particular thing to an object for example: when someone is trying to fix someone else’s idea, he directly shows his face to the particular thing and waving his hand to explain an issue.

The best practice to help you detect and recognize your perception power is contacting with the nature in several times such as you make the hiking trip to the Mountain. You can drive a boat in the Sea, camping in the jungle Etc. I will give you about the benefit of using perception is you can be creative person, be bold person, be discipline person, be visionary leader, be musician, Etc.

You may hear that there are many successful people in this world are wasting their time to contact with nature so often because they already knew that the biggest skill to change the world is creating and enhancing their perception power, that’s the main reason why they insist to contact with nature in several times, once your perception’s power is enhanced, it is will lead you a hint to recognize the invisible thing namely the meaning of life. 

How to utilize the power of habit in circumstance

In this topic I would like to elucidate the power of habits, the habit is part of the automatic program which let someone will do everything without thinking again, the habit is be formed into two kind, the first is personal’s habit and the second is the regulation which is agreed by group of people in society, for the individual person’s habits means that he creates his own habit without any interference from other side, and he will stay into the circle of habit he made, for the regulation’s habit means it will arrange the people’s activity and also it impels people to follow.

There‘s similar purpose between personal’s habit and the regulation’s habit namely controlling the object, when someone creates the habit, the natural energy will flow where his concentration comes out, the habits is like a robotic machine which is programmed by us, once we set it up, it will automatically run unstoppable, so in this section you must be careful because the habit is the supreme power, the habit will work for someone’s rule or someone will be ruled by habit.

In public circumstance, there are many regulations which force us to follow unless we don’t like it, the first thing you should do to utilize the power of habit is you have to recognize what is your passion then you must know what kind of potential energy is working in your daily’s activity program, don’t let your program will make you feeling retarded in the comfort zone, if it’s happening in your life, you will become a custody from your own. If you want to utilize the power of habit, you must upgrade your passion into visionary.

The habit also can help you to navigate where your purpose goes, once you succeed to destroy the power of habit, you will open the unlimited wealth within your soul, you must remember when you win upon the power of habit, there is the consequent and bring the big impact to you namely feeling extremely complicated.

How to know my positive energy already active?

 In this topic I would like to reveal the potential energy to you, this is part of human’s natural life because all human body’s movement are reflected from it, when human insists to open the positive’s energy gate, the human has to link his conscious mind with the subconscious mind gate, When One to another have been synchronized together, it will help human being to make decision whether to control how far human uses the potential energy,  I will remind you that the potential energy can transform either positive or negative. Both of them are dwelling together to human mind’s state. But one thing we should realize earlier that negative comes from the unnecessary thing which is taken from human’s daily activity.

When you want to know what kind of authentic proof is explaining that my positive energy is active, first proof is you already connect with your subconscious mind and then they work together to embody your dream and your potential energy flows as quick as your concentration goes on. The second proof is you can segregate between negative with its energy and you utilize the negative’s energy plus transform it to the positive area and leave the negative side behind.

Making a failure in every day situation in order to be smarter person is part of the positive energy which makes you often misunderstand with it, sometimes being fool person at the first time is part of recharging time to pull a new positive energy from the universe, you can’t activate your willpower when your energy is running low, but maybe some of people think, when someone is making a failure is part of bad habit, are you sure about it? , if this is happening, this is proof your mind has been paralyzed with negative’s passionate, I don’t think making failure is part of bad habit because making a failure is the greatest opportunity to make the things worked, that is part of regeneration.

How to influence the negative energy to dedicate my command

In this topic I would like to talk about the negative energy, as you know that positive energy and negative energy can’t be separated, all comes from the God’s grace, He made the universe along with its powerful energy, there’s nothing negative energy is created by itself, negative is part of passionate feeling, it’s not belonged to energy, so the meaning of negative energy is the substance of energy which is manipulated with negative’s influence.

The negative will not change anything in this life; it just gives you the image how to avoid the truth, it gives you the image how to feel self-satisfaction, it gives you the image how to feel comfortable to the comfort zone, the negative side will not compromise with positive side because both of them have different principal.

One thing we can learn from negative energy is they have full of passionate to dominate all over the world, when we feel the existence of the negative energy, there are two option; learning from it or running from it, if we run with it, we will not find the positive energy in the most days, if we fix our mindset today, there is any possibility will happen.

The first step how to make the negative energy is willingly to dedicate to our command is changing our speaking way to be better one, for example: I know I will be failing down if I don’t take this opportunity now, (changed to: I would better to taste the failure by doing something now rather than tomorrow because who knows tomorrow I will die or not to pick up the opportunity), the second step is changing our vision; don’t become a person who lives today but try to imagine how to become successful person in the future, and calculate how much price do you need to get you there.

How to train the intuition and make it as my leverage?

In this topic I would like to talk about how to train the intuition and how to make it as leverage, as you know that intuition is one of unlimited power which is given by God to human being, the intuition can be transformed as sole guidance to help human being to determine the target the conscious mind really insists, the intuition sometimes can be used by human to find the character which is matched for himself and also the intuition can be used by human being to create the power of focus in order to achieve the excellent things in his various fields of endeavor.

What’s relation between the leverage and the intuition, we can try to represent the intuition is considered as the fuel, and the leverage is considered as the generator machine, please look at the bullet train, from that example implies the bullet train can run faster till 300-350 km/hour because of the combination from the fuel and the generator machine.

The generator machine can help the train to accelerate the bullet train’s speed in order to achieve the target in scheduled time, if you want to find leverage and consider it as one of your utmost power, you must have the attractive character which is making human being willingly to value you as the trustworthy person and worthy, if you can’t be trustworthy, you will not get any leverage from someone else’s help.

The first step to train the intuition is finding your character and you must have a deep belief to your own dignity, the second step is you must have a vision to navigate your intuition to do something precisely. The third step is you must be resourceful man who helps somebody else finding the solution. From three steps above, hopefully it will widen your gaze and you find as much as leverage to achieve the target in time.

How do you stop thinking about someone?

In this topic I would like to talk about how stop thinking about someone, maybe he or she has made your down ruined or make you feel heartbreaking, this is normal condition which is happening in this life, I would say that you waste your limited time to think about someone who doesn’t think about you, and that’s behavior reflects that you haven’t recognized your purpose in this life.

I would like to widen your mindset about what’s the meaning of this life, this life is teaching that every human being must take responsibility to what they done in this life, whether you like or dislike with something good, whether you are successful or unsuccessful to achieve the target, whether you are rich or poor to earn the money, it doesn’t fill up your life.

Take the responsibility means every life of beauty, every life of space, every life of time, every life of the universe, every life of love, every life of human’s social life, every human touches, Etc. for those example I give to you means you must learn something from them with your sensible idea, that’s the ultimate gift from God to you, this life is not teaching how do you live on somebody else’s history, but what kind of learning do you take from somebody else’s history.

When we realize someone whom God entrust her for you, means you give her a best lesson about your life to her life, building the relationship is started from giving something the best thing you possess, not pursuing them because one’s who is responsible for life is personal experience. The more you give something benefits to somebody else the more reward you will receive from the resourcefulness; the resourcefulness means something unexpected gift from the grace of God. Every good decision you make, it reflects from your inner peace which lies within you.