Be careful who you trust; the devil was once an angels

          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share the topic "be careful who you trust, the devil was once an angel" meaning of that statement is everybody has self-image and everyone has the personal right how to choose who the type of person can be trusted, the main problem why a good person often receives a bad experience during making relationship in social circle because he gives trust to people who can't give something valuable to him and he doesn't know how to pick up a good people, remember; picking up a good people are so crucial, we can't create a better life when we don't know how you apply our personality in the standards of good personality, here is the simple criteria how to value a good person in the standard of good personality; someone can give something means to you and he doesn't need a return reward although he actually deserves it, if you can't meet someone with this kind of personality, at least you have to keep practicing your personality to behave a good personality such thing, don't ever try to please other people with something that they don't need it for themselves because everyone has different standard of how to build self-esteem, but if you can provide something that most people actually need it but they can't afford to do, you will become the center of resources in the future, remember this; good people will always appreciate your good service and they will get curious about what you already share to them, especially you share something critical and meaningful to the humanity's big impact.

Sometimes being kind to anybody is not a must but we can show our respect or giving a good service to them although they don’t need it for themselves at this moment, but giving a good service has different view with giving trust, you can behave a polite to everyone but not giving a trust to everyone, you know why? giving trust is like giving the knife, you can't provide trust to everyone who doesn't have any standard of good personality, when you just trust to anybody else without knowing whether they belong a good person or not, it's the same thing you let anyone to stab you in the back with your knife,  trust can become the useful knife when you know how to use it by freeing people come out from their own problem and you leave a memorable scratch to their memory and they remember your trust, remember this note; beware everything you trust because it can shape your destiny, you can’t get value from anything when you just give a trust to type of person who can’t be trusted, remember; giving a trust is like giving someone an access to enter your great empire where it contains your qualified soul and your qualified mind, you must know the type of person who will enter your great empire, trust can’t be exchanged with the worldly stuff or something expensive, but trust can be exchanged by giving a good service.

Here is important note; you don't need to be trusted by everyone, as long as you can provide a good service where they need it so much at any time, they will trust it automatically, don't bother to think about whether other people will trust you or not, as long as you work like the time’s working principle, the whole world will trust you, not exception, let me share to you several things about the time’s working principle; the first principle; time always works punctually although there is nobody will appreciate its existence, the second principle; time is incorruptible, the third principle; time can work optimally not just because time needs big promotion or recognition from other people’s credit, but time devotes itself with the one clear purpose, the fourth principle; time is always be accountable by doing something without needing any surveillance, the fifth principle; time can do something valuable when most people often underestimate it.

Do it now, sometimes later becomes never

          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share how to focus to do something that it means to you, as we know many people have many targets in their career, they spend their time to learn something, they want to get promotion, they want to get recognition from other people, they want to get respect, etc. But unfortunately, they don’t realize that the word "want" is the part of a toxic incantation, they should change from "want" to become "what makes I deserved it?, that excellent advice to self, sometimes the word "want" is just part of demand of something and it doesn't tell someone to make new decision, but if we use the sentence "what make I deserved it ?" is the kind of self-demand to fulfill the goal requirement, the more someone creates self-reliance, the more problem he gets, self-reliance is the the sign of luck, when someone knows he will get luck from something great, he will prepare something for it sooner, here is the best question to create a luck ; “why do I need to finish it now? when we use this question, Our brain system will work optimally rather than it usually does, remember this note; our activity will not create the different result when we just demand someone or something to satisfy what we want, we must create the priority list for what we want to fulfill.

 Remember this clue; the more we create the priority list, the more we insist ourselves to make a better strategy and we can avoid the unproductive activity, we can't insist ourselves to grow better when we don't have any goal, a great goal can educate someone to do something extraordinary than someone who has no goal, when we urge about something we want to finish it, the sign of miracle will happen, the miracle will not happen when we act casually about what we are going to do, the more we spend more time to postpone, the more we lose our enthusiasm and we lose our desire value, in fact, the enthusiasm is the switch where it can awaken the human’s willpower and also it can help human to pull the new opportunity from the future, besides that, the enthusiasm can help human to shape a new vision and creativity in order to create a new future, in my opinion; the main problem why most people can’t get what they really want in the rest of their lives because they have spent their leisure time by waiting wake up-call and waiting the opportunity from other people, so, my opinion towards it, they don’t have a good philosophy and they lack of willpower.

Starting today, we must prioritize something bigger than our expectation because our past doesn't need us and our future really needs us, we need to prepare our skill and let Almighty God uses our masterpiece and our inborn skill to collect new opportunity, the more we get opportunity, the more we deserve to get what we really want, so if we want to get better career in the future, we must change our priority to the urgency list, imagine that the bad circumstance will happen to reality, when we train our mind with such condition, we will not dare to postpone something in our priority list, finally the word “later becomes Now”, if we don’t give a design to the future about what we really want, we will get desperate and we will lose our willpower, that’s the key how to create a better future, don’t forget to create the artificial emergency plan because it can help us to monitor the progressive result.

Do something more till you haven’t checked your phone

          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share how to do something inspired till you have no time to check your phone, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people’s focus are distracted by their own cellphone, at this moment, let me share several things about the strategy what we must do before the cellphone will give us the prison cell of mind, here is the fact;  the more often people associate with their cellphone, the less people associate with the reality of life, eventually people will be passive because people too enjoy with the instant service where it's offered by cellphone's program every day, this is bad idea, wherever they go to the new place, their mind are trapped by cellphone, during research, 65%-85% people's daily life are trapped in the fake happiness which it is produced by cellphone, as a result people can't learn something from daily miracle where it is happening every day, when cellphone is trying to take someone's focus away from the target, people's enthusiasm will be moved to the cellphone and unwittingly people will postpone to finish their daily goal, at same time people don't realize that the future will create the unproductive activity and the future put the unproductive activity into the people daily habit, when it’s repeated regularly, it's risking people's career and the future’s growing process will be delayed because people stop making the progress.

Remember this note; before you postpone something valuable, imagine that you will lose your last opportunity on earth at that time, if there is something valuable that can bring a big impact in your life, you must prioritize to do it or your life will be lifeless. when you delay something means to you, at the same time your future‘s growing process will be delayed, that’s life system, You need to ensure that there is nobody or something will distract your focus once you start something, before you turn off your cell phone, make sure you don’t have any appointment with people or your client during 24 hour of your time, after that, you need to monitor about your life journey whether it can satisfy you or not within 10 years ago till now, when your life didn’t satisfy you or it couldn’t give something bigger than your expectation, means, there is something wrong with your philosophy, in daily life, you need to analyze about what you learn and who you are studying with, the main reason why we must check it because they can be part of your life history, sometimes we need to behave like a curious child who wants to know about what future wants, remember this note; the cellphone will not destruct your focus as long as you check it later after you finish your all targets, all interruptions don't come from the interruption maker, but it comes from our wrong philosophy.

Don't just do something what you love, but love what your goals want 

Please don’t judge something bad when you have finished because everything you do according to what your focus works for you, sometimes we need to immobilize our satisfaction in order to achieve big achievement, don’t let our willpower will be stolen by something we don’t know where it comes from, the cellphone is not part of the interruption maker, but it is designed to test our focus whether it is strong enough or not during facing the life problem, in my personal advice, if we think there is something we can’t control, we must let it go away from us because it will get our condition worse when we still hold it, if there is something is really attracted by our attention, it doesn't mean we need to struggle for getting it immediately because not all attractive things can bring peace for us, we need to focus about what our soul wants from us, not what we think it must be done, don't get stressed if we don't get what we want because not all what we want deserves us, all we need to do right now is how to make ourselves is ready to feel the painful experience in the reality of life and how to leave good legacy and leave the inspiring story to the next generation? I think that's critical question we need to ponder.

Push yourself to do when nobody is going to do for you

          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share about how to push yourself to do something inspired when nobody is going to do for you, the main reason why I choose that topic because most people let their daily habit to be controlled by their expectation and they prefer to choose soul destroying job, as a result, they feel lifeless because they let the unknown circumstance to change what they can do, the main reason why most people don't want to push themselves to do something more because they don't have vision about the future plan and they have obsessed with the uninspiring dream where they have built it in their daily habit, if this condition still happens continuously; I worry they can't control where their sense of expectation goes, remember this note; if we don't do something that we think only we can finish it, the life circumstance will give us the desperate state, here is the reminder to self; don't ever feed the negative emotion with the desperate state or we will obsess with a poor mind state, every new chance in life will invite human's attention when they have no sense of the desperate state, when we grow our mood with a sense of desperate, it’s probably we never approach a new chance, sometimes we need to hack our mind and chose a hard decision in order to leave our satisfaction, we need the force of friction to change our mentality, if there is no any force of friction, we can't control ourselves and automatically our mental age won't grow.

 The most important thing we should do when we face the unpleasant thing is improving our mindset and improve the mechanic we have such as our working style, our good service, our attitude skill, our speaking skill, we learn the way we associate with other people, we notice the way we dress, we change the way we spend our money, etc. Here are the good news if you can push yourself to do the difficult thing; your mental power will develop as fast as you learn about it, your life will be no dull because your life journey will be forgotten about the painful experience where it had occurred in the past moment, You need to train your mind to find solution that most people don’t have or people get afraid to do, when you keep this kind of habit, everything you want will be transformed into reality, now the main reason why not many people want to help us to manifest our dream into reality because we don’t have any vision and any reason to be shared to them, sometimes we need to evaluate about what we want to do before we share to others, prime ourselves to create something valuable is a must, we must create something simpler and understandable, so other people can absorb what you share, when we have created something that most people understand about it, other people will help us.

A sense of self-control will never happen when we don't lure it with great ambition, we must know our intelligence capacity level, we shouldn’t create a low goal or create the uninspired goal, besides that, we must attach the reasonable time to reach our clear goal, so we can monitor what we evaluate or we can improve what we need to improve, we must ensure that we have a reasonable time to control what we do, if we don’t have a reasonable time to pursue our ambition, we will lose our desire because we can’t get longevity patience, remember this note; when we push ourselves to set goal, we must ensure our goal can be measured with our deadline, furthermore, don’t let our goal can make us got desperate because it can't heal our inner world when we are willingly to take a long term plan, furthermore, don't let our opportunity is gone because of our carelessness and our casual habit, the most important goal is not fulfilling what we want, but how to give a small contribution for as many as people.

What is your level of urgency?

          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share how to know our urgency level, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people are willingly to create the sense of urgency for themselves, but unfortunately they forget one thing; the miracle will not come when there is no urgency level in human's life purpose, as a result, the life circumstance will put a sense of desperate to type of people who love to postpone something important, the main reason why people love to postpone doing something important because their expectation level is higher than their capacity level and they reject the reality, at this moment let me explain why we need to urge ourselves to break our expectation level and start to make about the urgency plan because our freedom are restricted by time, reality, negative mind and space, if we don't urge to do something that it means to us,  we will never get chance to pursue a new chance, remember this note; expectation comes from satisfaction, money, reputation, mutual relationship, lack of curiosity, etc. If we don't break our expectation level, we will never have any chance to enter the urgency level, here is the benefit if we have a sense of urgency; we will never get pissed off about failure because we realize being patience during doing something consistency is the powerful weapon to resist the chaotic mind and we will succeed faster than other people's opinion.

         The first thing comes up to your mind about a sense of urgency; it's probably you think that you never get any chance to rest, that's totally wrong, it's just part of strategy how to freedom your life from the chaotic mind because a sense of satisfaction will create a chaotic mind automatically when you don't have any plan to build a sense of urgency in your life, let me share how to create a sense of urgency; you must think "what's purpose am I born on earth?", there must be a strong reason to answer that question, when you think about it, I am sure you will be curious and you start to make research from any reference, it comes from spiritual teacher, religion, environment, nature, philosophy, wisdom, animal, plants, etc. That's first lesson you have been given from life, besides that a sense of urgency also can be adopted to create a new career in business, here is a note you need to ponder if you have a plan to build business; “what kind of value you can provide every day? The second thing you need to ponder “how many people want to urge themselves to buy your level of urgency?” the third thing you should ponder “why people need your product/service right now?” If you can answer these kind of question right now, I am really sure you will have a sense of urgency and you will not dare to postpone what you want to do because you need to provide other people’s daily need, it’s look simple, but it’s hard to do, if we think what we do today can’t be postponed later, our existence will be more valuable than product or service. 

       Please remember; If you think your product/service can rescue the human's life from a chaotic mind, desperate, and a midlife crisis, please don't postpone to do it because there is God's existence within your service, you are within God's lifetime project, your resources will be more valuable if you do that project than you just sell a product which has been used by people occasionally, here is the quality number one that you have a high level of urgency in this life; you have a high pain tolerance during you building a new career and you feel lifeless when you don’t do something valuable within 24 hour, now you may ask me “why do I need a high level of urgency in my life?” if you don’t have it, you are forced by life to work with a soul destroying job, in my opinion; if you want get an extraordinary life, you must avoid a soul destroying activity where it teaches you how to work for self-pleasure only, not building a high purpose to bring a million of good impact for everyone, if you only prioritize about your pleasure, you will have a poor soul and you will be forced by life to wear something you don’t deserve to wear it and you will live with chaotic mind and you will stick together with a pressure cooker.

A wise question is half the answer

          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share how to make a wise question, the main reason why we need to create a wise question because it can be used to create a better imagination, a better plan and a better idea for our future, I have ever researched about the power of how to make a wise question, it really works to my life, you know why? Because the human’s brain system will work optimally when it accepts a wise question, if there is no wise question which it is being intended to the human’s conscious mind, the brain will cause the bad respond to the people behavior, when we have a sudden difficult situation, don't put bad judgment on this area because life will bring a worse reaction twice times more severity than our expectation, we can't use bad judgment to change our condition, we must create a wise question in order to invite life and let it creates a good reaction for us, when we can create a wise question, automatically life will not hurt us, instead it will give a better solution, the human’s brain system is like the parachute’s working principle, the parachute is useful once it’s has been given with the wind’s blow, if there is no wind's blow, the parachute is useless, it's same thing like the human's potential's principle, the human's potential will be meaningful when it has been given with an insatiable curiosity, practice and a critical question.

           But remember this; not all questions can activate the human’s brain potential, all depends on the quality of question which it is created by the high quality of human’s emotion, nobody knows how to make a critical question till people will get a personal bad experience or they receive an inspiring story from other people who give a good influence, here is the note; when people have a good experience, it comes from people’s good judgment, and good judgment comes from people’s bad experience, then people’s bad experience comes from their bad judgment, we must beware when we make a bad judgment towards problem because most problem we have is coming from the quality of our bad manner, when we make a bad judgment, it gives command to our conscious mind to do something bad, if we commit to do repeatedly, it becomes bad habit, the main reason why most people don't realize about their bad habit because they feed their mind with uninspiring question, if people ask themselves with a wise question, I am sure they will think five times before doing something bad, let me gives you the example of wise question, "what loss I will get if I love to postpone something important to my future?" and "what factor makes human get grateful today instead of waiting to receive money?"

 In my opinion, when we can’t speak about truth or good words, we would better to shut our mouth because our bad habit is determined by our quality of words, starting today, we must train our mind by giving it with a wise question or critical question, if we this kind of habit, I am sure our lives will be magnificent because we always prepare good thing before bad thing happens, now the question, how many a wise question do we make during a month recently? if we provide a wise question, it will help our lives from a midlife crisis or a chaotic mind, if you ask me "does a wise question give human an opportunity to succeed?" of course, because the success story comes from the human's eloquent words and also there are repeatable wise questions at that time, hopefully you can start to teach your beloved family how to make a wise question.

When someone get angry easily, he needs love the most

          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share how to calm ourselves from anger, as we know human are emotional creature and every human has been graced with several intelligence, one of the most powerful intelligence is emotional intelligence, it has power to create a light and darkness for their heart, the light of heart can be represented by love, whereas the darkness of heart can be represented by anger, when human create love, it automatically can flow something benefit to the human's heart, such as grateful, fully appreciated, serenity, patience, etc. When human create anger, it automatically crash the logical mind and give a toxic in the human's mind, please beware about the power of emotion you have chosen because your future is shaped based on the quality of your emotion, don't hear wild notion where it can influence you to get angry, the human's emotional character is like the water, it can flow something benefit and also it can crash something meaningful, remember this note; when you are unable to awaken the power of love, automatically you are able to awaken the power of anger, now you may think about this question, “why most people get angry if they are able to create love?” because they don’t appreciate something valuable and they trust something which it can't be trusted, I have ever written in another article “life will give reaction when there is action” means when people get angry easily, because they preempt a bad judgment to their life and life automatically will give bad reaction to them, so we need to monitor our daily habit before it will be taken over by a sense of darkness.

Remember this note; life is designed to give reaction and nature is designed to give something reliable, if you see angry person around you, means he doesn't have ability to control where his emotional flowing current, if he doesn't want to feel angry, he must increase his survival instinct like what reptilian does to its environment, sometimes we can adopt the reptilian instinct to make sure we can fight our anger and we can continue our exist on earth, when we are trapped between rock and bottom, we shouldn't show an anger reaction, but we can use our survival instinct to keep alive and keep searching how to find solution, now the problem is“are you interested with bad reaction or good reaction?” if you are interested with good reaction, you will find a way how to find the nearest solution, but if you are interested with bad reaction, life will give a bad reaction to you and you will be punished with a bad reaction, here are the signs you are interested with a good reaction; you can create serenity, you can preempt harmony in the human relationship although there is dispute situation, we must understand that feel angry is not part of huge power, but it is part of self-punishment, if this condition is repeated over and over again, it can leave big hole destruction to the inner soul peace, before someone gets angry, he must build love and improve his survival instinct.

 This life will not give bad reaction if there is no bad action from the human’s emotional behavior, but unfortunately most people don't realize their power of words which it can create different impact to their lives, when people say to them "how can I do it? and "what should I do to avoid a sense of angry?", the human's survival instinct will grow up and it will give the possibility to find solution, beware of our words because it is very powerful, it can create inspiration or it can create desperation, the unpleasant thing which it happens in this life is not part of the life purpose, but it’s part of wrong direction where it has been created by human’s lack of survival instinct to fight their ignorance of knowledge, starting today, don’t get overworked  when you have job because it has potentially create a sense of anger and also please don't act casually when you have a clear target to be pursued because it will decline your survival instinct, hopefully after you read this article, it will help you to recognize where your power of emotional intelligence is going.

The best revenge is move on, get over it and continue to succeed

        Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share about how to continue a life journey by moving on our focus and enthusiasm to the right direction when we have met with setback or failure, sometimes we feel like uninspired, unmotivated, feel angry, feel undeserved, but there is still a good news as long as we are still alive, tomorrow is a second chance and today is the first chance, we can leave the past moment as mood booster and we start preparing a unprecedented opportunity for tomorrow, act of moving on our plan to another direction is a good choice, remember one thing; when we change our feasibility plan, it doesn't mean we will change our dream, when everything goes wrong, it is part of evaluation, sometimes God gives us to the wrong direction in order to know whether we realize or not with our commitment, as long as we commit with our dream, move on is just like steeping the stair, if we look at the ladder's philosophy, every step of ladder is designed differently from one step to another one, means, every step is the part of progress, not kind of setback, I believe that everyone has ever experienced with a bad situation where it may interrupt their inner peace, but if there is no bad experience in our lives, our lives will be bored and we will become a limited edition stuff because there is no new design, new innovation and progress at all.

        We shouldn’t get angry about a bad experience or we get betrayal from our friend, all is good for us because we will know about other people's bad characteristic, every bad experience is designed to increase our survival instinct and increase our mental age level, we should be thankful to everyone who has ever given something unpleasant to us, such as get betrayal, rejection, broken heart, get swindled, all we receive are the part of mood booster and progress, remember this note; the more problem we face, the higher calling from God is coming, means God wants to see our best response and best preparation, if our preparation is good enough, God will win your battle, Please don’t judge too early to something we haven't ever experienced because not all bad experience are bad, some bad experience can turn into wake-up call for someone has never learned something. always remember this note; if you get problem within your hands, means, God entrusts something meaningful to you and He leaves problem to you because only you are chosen to be His messenger, so everyone has possibility to become God's messenger, when you are entrusted with a great power, means you can make a better world with your own version.

           When you find something unchangeable like environment or a social circle, don’t get stressed about it because it is a sign that you must get it over with them and you start a new life journey tomorrow, maybe some people has ever experienced by receiving a low responsibility job or bad career, this condition sometimes very painful because at that time you feel your working experience is unappreciated, that's new chance to improve your current skill and you can leave that job, if you keep staying with job which can't appreciate your skill, you will feel uninspired and unmotivated, here is my note; this life is neutral, it can serve you with a good service when you do good deeds and life will become evil when you risk your life by trusting something or someone who can't be trusted, here is the best revenge to end your painful experience; change your unproductive ritual with a productive habit, refine your philosophy and become a man of value.When you commit yourself to become a man of value, you will be offered with many opportunity to succeed your career and you will not get stress about your past because you really understand about God's plan.

7 habits of couple who are deeply connected

        Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share about 7 habits of couple who are deeply connected, the main reason why I choose that topic because many couples don’t commit with their relationship because they don't know how to create deeply connection in relationship, at this time let me share 7 habit of couple who are deeply connected, the first habit of couple who are deeply connected; they stay communicated each other although they are not staying in the same location, the main reason why we need to keep communicated into each other because this strategy can help us how to build a close proximity, if any couples don’t have time to communicate, means there is no health relationship, please take this note; if there is no sense of yearning between relationship, there is no reason to defend that kind of relationship because there is no sense of possessive between them, keep communication is the logic strategy how to build a strong foundation and how to strengthen a sense of trust among them, here is the second habit of couple who are deeply connected; they empower each other by fulfilling their emotional needs by giving a support or make kindle together, etc.

         Remember this note; empowering other people’s need is part of showing care, if you can’t shape your personality such thing, your power of service will not give you sense of proud, your spouse will not feel proud as well, emotional intelligence can’t work properly if there is no sense of yearning to possess it, this condition can be applied in case of someone who has sense of yearning with the pursuit of dream, if someone has no sense of yearning with their dream, dream will never come in the right time because the dream basic foundation comes from big responsibility to manifest in reality, remember this note; dream is like building, we must manifest the dream’s design, we work hard to fulfill what dream wants from us until we can collect the benefit of the dream, here is the third habit of couple who are deeply connected; they stay committed how to build same vision, means they make something bigger in the future, like making a new kindle together, if you follow this habit, you will find any worthy from your spouse because you preserve good quality of your spouse, here is the fourth habit of couple who are deeply connected; they don't have any intention to harm their relationship such as swindling the spouse’s money, betraying the spouse’s trust, telling lie to the spouse, etc.

        Here is the fifth habit of couple who are deeply connected; stay curious about the spouse’s interest, if you keep this habit, your sense of love will stay renewed because you always find a new thing from your spouse, here is the six habit of couple who are deeply connected; stay guarded to the spouse’s honor from any dangerous thing, this is important, if you don’t find it at your character, your love is immature and you can’t get respect from your spouse, here is the seventh habit of couple who are deeply connected; feel trustworthy and stay openness, this is very important habit because it will shape your future, if you can't be trustworthy, you will no longer can prolong your relationship.

6 issues that break relationship forever

        Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share about 6 issues that break relationship forever, the main reason why I choose that topic because many couple are trapped in a toxic relationship, so they don’t dare to break that kind of relationship, now let me share to you about 6 issues that break relationship forever, the first issue that breaks relationship forever; build an unworthy communication, means, if you can’t find any worth communication when you talk with your spouse, means you and your spouse can’t continue that kind of relationship because you and your spouse can’t build the same vision to be shared together, the second issue that breaks relationship forever; there is no mutual understanding and there is no mutual respect in relationship, this condition can’t be underestimated because it can create unhealthy relationship impact if every couple still continues it, if you want to build healthy relationship, you must estimate how much time you need to research what your spouse usually does in the major time, if your spouse can't spend a minor time to talk to you, means you don't need to continue that kind of relationship because your spouse doesn't appreciate your existence. 

         This is the third issue that breaks relationship forever; there is suspicious mind when every couple has made separated appointment, this is important to be learnt, do you know why? When sense of suspicious mind comes up in your mind, means there must be something wrong with your spouse’s circumstance, if you neglect this condition, your emotion drastically reduces because you can’t make sensible opinion regarding your spouse’s dignity, remember this note; the suspicious mind of yours will not grow if there is suspicious behavior in your spouse, sometimes your instinct will work optimally when your spouse hides something valuable from you, here is the fourth issue that breaks relationship forever; inability to see any good value in couple’s ability, means, your valuable service will not get any respect from your spouse because your spouse only takes care about self, not in relationship, you must stay away from this kind of relationship, the main reason why we need to see any value from our spouse because long term relationship can’t be built without seeing any good thing into each other, if you can’t get any value from your spouse, means you don’t need any reason to preserve it because reality shows differently than what you expect.

         This is the fifth issue that breaks relationship forever; lack of charisma, the main reason why I need to comment such thing because sense of charisma is the main cause how to influence every couple’s emotion to be rejuvenated, you will not get any rejuvenation from your spouse when you don’t have any good service to be offered to your spouse, you must have charisma when you want to attract your spouse, if your spouse still can’t see any charisma of yours means you no longer valuable in front of your spouse, this is six issue that breaks relationship forever; lack of yearning to see each other, I think this reason is reasonable for every couple, human being is kind of emotional creature, if there is no sense of yearning, there is no relationship between both of them.

4 signs you are in a toxic relationship

         Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share about 4 signs you are in a toxic relationship, the main reason why I choose that topic because many couple don’t realize that they are trapped in a toxic relationship in several years and they still can't escape from physical proximity, now let me share to you about 4 signs you are in toxic relationship, the first sign that you are in a toxic relationship; there is no single response from your spouse when you invite your spouse to talk together, means your spouse's doesn't consider you as the important person because you can't understand your spouse's problem, the reason why giving response to spouse is important because it signs that someone trusts with spouse, if your service is not appreciated by your spouse, means your spouse considers that you are supposed to walk away, don’t ever underestimate with the sign of response because a love life breaks easily not because there is fighting or any dispute, but love life breaks easily because every couple shows behave indifferent into each other, starting today, don’t let you or your spouse shows being indifferent, if you are bored about your relationship, try to challenge yourself to dig new information about your spouse’s interest, not trying to walk away from your spouse.

        Here is the second sign that you are trapped in a toxic relationship; there is no progress during making a close proximity, means, you and your spouse are not finding any strong reason to live together in the future, furthermore you and your spouse are not ready to accustom with every change of respective behavior, this problem is caused by lack of commitment and lack of sense of possessive about love feeling, if this relationship is forced to keep going, your mental strength is decreasing automatically because your service is not considered as the important thing in the eye of your spouse, remember this note; don’t ever think living on earth is like living in the heaven, it’s totally wrong, in order to prolong our love life, we need to survive for what we pursue, fighting hard to go against a toxic relationship, sometimes you need guts to make tough decision and you plan to fail, not because you are doing a lot to your spouse doesn’t mean you are getting more done, here is special note; not all result are designed to make you happy, but problem in relationship will get you stronger than you were yesterday.

        Here is the third sign that you are trapped in a toxic relationship; there is no sense of trust while you will plan to delegate something to your spouse, means you can’t give all authorities to your spouse because your spouse’s character doesn’t meet what your authority demands, if your spouse puts a toxic relationship, means you have to stop giving your service to your spouse because he/she doesn’t appreciate what you provide, remember this note; everything valuable will be more worthy when someone knows how to be trustworthy person, everything valuable will be unworthy when someone doesn’t know how to make something useful for spouse, here is the last point I want to share, the fourth sign that you are trapped in a toxic relationship; your spouse isn’t interested with your life story, and your spouse doesn’t want to plan something bigger with you in the future, hopefully you can avoid the 4 sign of toxic relationship and you can rescue your valuable resources in the long term plan.

8 ways to mend a broken relationship

         Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have good day, today I would like to share about 8 ways to mend a broken relationship, the main reason why I choose that topic because many couples feel regret and they don't know how to mend a broken relationship, here is the first strategy to mend a broken relationship; make an official agreement in the note where it states what to do and what not to do, I just remind you that this strategy is not always getting successful, you need to behave patience when your spouse still does something irritated to you, when the condition keeps getting worst, you need to leave your spouse for awhile and give your spouse several options to rethink how to run a good relationship, here is the second strategy how to mend a broken relationship; leave respective ego and prepare to compromise, this is strategy can be applied to strengthen a broken relationship as long as there is willingness to try from both of them, if you or your spouse are really serious to mend a broken relationship, both must kindle a respective interest in order to break old habit where it may create a dispute among them.

        Here is the third strategy how to mend a broken relationship; don’t fix something unchangeable but fix something measurable, means, don’t try to remind of spouse past mistake, but try to optimize what your spouse's talent and support what you can do for your spouse, remember this note; only you can fix your personal character, when you improve what you can do, there is still chance for you to rejuvenate your spouse’s mood, here is the fourth strategy how to mend a broken relationship; change your unsupported environment with supported environment, this is important, sometimes your spouse doesn’t like to see you because you are getting around with bad influence which is created by your friend circle, when you leave unsupported environment, automatically your ritual can be mended as well, when your spouse realizes it, your spouse will give you a chance to harmonize him/her mood, here is the fifth strategy how to mend a broken relationship; make the official gathering between your parents and your spouse’s parents, at least they can help you how to mend your relationship problem by offering some win-win situation, here is the sixth strategy how to mend a broken relationship; leave your ritual which it has potential to make your spouse hates most about you,  this is important clue, the wrong ritual will influence your behavior, when you have a bad behavior, everything you give for your spouse, result will injure your spouse's feeling, when you renew your ritual, at least it can elevate your spouse’s interest about you.

        Here is the seventh strategy how to mend a broken relationship; give a special gift where your spouse demands from you, this strategy will work as long as you don’t have any bad intention to break your spouse's feeling, here is the eighth strategy how to mend a broken relationship; learning about your spouse's life story before your spouse met you directly, show full empathy when your spouse tells a life story to you, unwittingly you can understand about your spouse's personal problem, when you keep this habit happening, finally you can find a root of a broken relationship, hopefully this article can give you an insight, good luck.