These blogs are designed how to learn more about human's mindset, behavior, habit and deep belief, plus, observe about the life system and philosophy.
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How to become a better person as mentally
Here is the fifth step how to become a better person as mentally; you avoid something easy or avoid the shortcut process, meaning, you enjoy the learning process in the long term, probably you will meet with failure and adversity, remember; failure and adversity is part of blessing, you will not know how to change your life until you meet with something you hate too much, here is the sixth step how to become a better person as mentally; surround yourself with people who tell you about long term in building personal development, means, you go associated with trustworthy people, idealist people, honesty people, if you are making habit of it, you always get something beyond your expectation, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.
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Mental health awareness
Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Mental health awareness”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people believe what they choose is going to alter a new life for them, but in reality, their awareness can't guide them in the freedom they deserve, now the question is "what kind of freedom people deserve?", I think if there is not enough clarity, there is no freedom they deserve, basically the problem is not about freedom, but the way people behave is not congruent with their the future's hope, remember this; people don’t get what they believe is not caused by lack of clarity, but people lack of big reason behind self-awareness, if you want to get freedom in life, you will never get it unless you must free every human from their daily life problem, that's I call as the life mission, if you think it is impossible to do, you don't need to do what you can't possible do, every single day there must be a new freedom is offered as long as you stop focusing on your own gratification, that’s requirement how to know whether your freedom is supposed to be right or wrong, if you keep pushing yourself not to focus on progress, you will never get the freedom from this life, instead you will get boredom, that’s consequence, to discard the inessential thing in your life, you need to make research about what most people really want in life, when you can provide what people want, you will get golden ticket to get the freedom, to prolong your freedom, make sure every day you shape your great days by making new masterpiece or you create a habit which can connect with something which can offer a mental health.
The reason why people can’t get clarity and self-awareness because they walk in the mediocre habit where most people are used to run it for their daily activity, if you keep following what most people used to it, you would feel confused, anxiety and fear as consequence, remember this; the mediocre path can’t get you freedom in your career because you prefer to get along with the crowded people who can't help you to achieve your goal, please don’t be proud when you can walk into the mediocre path because it just offers pleasure, lack of difficult, instant process and lack of new lesson offering, here is the special note; to live into your life freedom, you must drag yourself to walk in the new path where nobody sees it as opportunity, please don’t get affected by most people’s idea where they believe their life journey is okay without new lesson, you must take the new path where most people see it as the craziest thing which it will never work in reality, that’s fixed mindset where it can block people’s opportunity to achieve a greater potential in life, please beware about what you believe because not all you believe can bring something good for you, sometimes you need to stay open-minded in order to receive the abundance of new lesson in life, here is my additional note; self-awareness is always talking about the strategy how to unlearn something we had done and we try something we never taste before, here is the first strategy how to gain mental health; don't prioritize about what your want, but prioritize your skill and mindset development, meaning, you don't let yourself an ease with your environment, when you get what you want, you only get the same journey, if you focus how to develop your skill, you will get new journey where it is more challenging, here is the second strategy how to gain mental health; sell what you know to others as much as possible, if you can apply this strategy, your brain memory keeps improving and also it is will be renewed, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.
What is true education
Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “What is true education”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people are getting the sign of true education since they are childhood, the main cause why not many people get the sign of true education because they are not trained by their parents / teachers how to pursue and overcome the problem, how to delegate the power of focus to the right target, how to prepare provision before the crisis and how to find self-potential, now let me share something related with the sign of true education, hopefully you will get something benefit from these tips, here is the first tip how to get the sign of true education; you feel enthusiast when you get a new mistake in whatever situation you involved with, the reason why you need to take this strategy because the world changes faster every day, “the faster the world changes, the more demand from the marketplace will be there”, if we don't adapt with new change, we will be left behind by new opportunity, in order to maximize our potential, limitation and stamina, we need daily problem to test our potential, I know it may be difficult and unpleasant, remember this; whether we like it or not, we must educate ourselves from two things; our own mistake and other people's mistake, here is what's true education is freeing ourselves from self-ignorance and salvage our mental inventory from having sense of scarcity, if we lack of mental inventory, our lust will enslave us.
The sign of true education is giving a good legacy and stay humble to accept new unpleasant experience |
If we don’t try new thing, we will get a long pain of regret, if we keep this condition becomes a habit, our opportunity would be gone easily because our the pain of regret is greater than the size of opportunity, sometimes we need to borrow the power of the future to test whether our potential and mental strength is adequate or not, we will never know about how powerful of our potential if we don’t try to hit rock bottom from problem we faced, most of us often underestimate what we can do within our control and what we can not to do beyond our control because we lack of clear purpose in life, if we lack practicing our potential, we will get the painful fear every time we will get new mistake, here is the second tip how to get the sign of true education; we compete with the universe’s law, means, we will keep acquiring new effort and hone our skill although we already get something that we accomplished, as long as the life journey keeps running, we keep pursuing our potential, then resting for moment and we are running again to pursue new dream, the basic purpose of getting a true education is we are ready to fight against ourselves, such as the painful ego, the painful ignorance and the painful regret, if we succeed to pass the life challenge, we deserve to get what we want, that's message from the universe, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.
Real wealth is about freedom
Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Real wealth is about freedom”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people can exchange their freedom with new opportunity because they lack of skill to be exchanged with the market demand, to build the personal's wealth, people must use their time freedom to dig up their own potential constantly and give it to others as free gift, as we know that not many people are willing to share their potential because they always have a profit-oriented, it may seem absurd if we don't get the profit for what we share something, that's the mortal world's principle, but if we look at the world of spirituality, "every givings will be returned to the giver", means, you will be pursued with the profit wherever you go, whether you believe it or not, it depends on how strong your power of faith to make it real, now I understand why there are many people can't make themselves richer because they follow what money wants, that's problem, if you compare between the human's wealth and money, there is none comparable, here is the key "we shouldn't focus on how much money we will receive but we should focus on how much our creativity which it will be exchanged with the market's demand", now let me share several laws you need to learn, here is the first law how to get wealth is share your profit to others for free like what God does to you, means, you must spend your major time to focus on what you can develop for free, if you are unable to give your profit for free, how can you share when you have nothing?, that's universe's question, here is the second law how to get wealth is don’t ask for more, but give for more, means, you don’t worry if you don't get what you expect because you believe the law of God will not make you living poverty by giving more for others.
Remember this; by giving more doesn't mean you will receive with the same amount of what you give, at least you will receive something different than you usually work for earning money, if you train your mind to give more than what you expect, your personality will become the magnet of sustenance, if you have this kind of habit, you always be founded by people who are ready to reward you, remember this; we are living in the uncertain world, don’t let ourselves becoming the prisoner of money because money can't make you richer, instead money will give you the sense of fear, if you focus on your potential, the universe will return what you deserve to get, remember this law; "the amount of greed is having same equal with the amount of fear at coincidence", if money gives you sense of fearfulness, you will receive the sense of greed as consequence, if this condition becomes habit, money will stop your creation and you tend to pursue more money rather than attracting more money, when your emotion keeps asking more money than before, you will behave like a greedy person's character and you work until the money will leave you forever, here is the third law how to get wealth is don’t wait the outcome, but enjoy your potential growth, the reason why you need to do this because the outcome isn’t part of the human responsibility, sometimes you need to delegate your job with the universe’s law and let the universe and God surprises you with unimaginable outcome, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.
Always trust the process
Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Always trust the process” the reason why I choose that topic because not many people believe about their own growing skill in the long term period, some of them try to rush the process because their attempts and their prediction has taken a longer time to succeed, in my opinion; the problem is not lies in the process, but the problem comes from someone who is inability to have vision, make progress and lack of competence skill, it is very fatal, I think we don't need to rush the process because we will never know how is the importance behind the process, sometimes the process is taken for longer time because it can help us to detect new opportunity and avoid the high risk which may threat our future plan, such as the life crisis or the market crash, in my opinion; we shouldn’t judge something bad about the process we created because it comes from our restricted space, our mental age and our different capacity, if we just too obsessed with result and skip the process, it would be unexpected loss will happen to us, the reason why we aren’t allowed to skip the process because in the middle journey of process will shape new circumstance for us, either spirituality, mentality, or physically, remember this advice; a new fate will follow the strengthening process from disciplined action and our readiness of personality.
Success is like the butterfly’s life transition, it needs several part of long process to succeed, if someone interrupts the cocoon’s process, the butterfly will be dead because its wings are not strong enough to fly, in reality of life, we must not wait the result because the result is part of God's authority, nobody will know when the result comes because it is not part of the human’s responsibility, our main job is just studying, adapting with new circumstance and make a good service to others, remember this note; although we don’t know how good what we are capable of, we must practice our potential, we work on our philosophy and we work on our personality, that's it, maybe it seems hard, but don't worry about that, we don’t stay forever to continue the process we already create it because the next stage of process will be continued by the universe, as long as we focus on our potential, we will not get failure and we will not regret about what we have done, only indecision will end everything we hoped, although our attempt doesn't seem blooming like we hoped, it doesn't matter, the most important thing is you study more than you have been given from a paycheck, don't listen other people who aren't willing to support you, here is the most dangerous thing we should avoid in this life; stop making progress, stop staying curious about your power of vision and lose the passion of learning, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.
how to deal with negative emotions
Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “how to deal with negative emotions”, this topic is very interesting because I am sure every human being has ever felt such thing, the main reason why negative emotions approach to human's life journey because human’s mentality is not ready to deal with the unpleasant experience or difficult thing, so their brain which is called amigdala is playing role to give negative response when people don't know how to deal with the unpleasant experience or difficult thing, if we want to create the positive response, so we must enrich our knowledge with some valuable information at the first time, the more we increase our knowledge, the more it can give us many options to make decision, the quality of information is the first power how to make us easier to make decision, if we lack of knowledge, we will make decision based on the emotional feeling, I just want to remind you that relying emotional feeling is not always bringing good value because emotional feeling doesn't give us any direction, it just gives us sense of fulfillment, the best way to make decision is train your mentality to do something challenging, but not doing something dangerous, doing something challenging is not the same with doing something dangerous, if someone does something challenging, he is not motivated by fear, but he is motivated by his biggest curiosity, whereas, if someone does something dangerous, he is motivated by fear and irrational thinking, here is the first step how to recognize negative emotions: you must identify your 24 hours of habit and identify the information you have consumed every day, if you can’t share something valuable to others within 24 hours, means, your mind has absorbed too much information which contains negative emotions unknowingly.
I wouldn’t say we can escape from negative emotion easily, there is nobody can go away from it, all we need to do is learn something from negative emotion and learn how to stop negative emotion from its growing, although negative emotion often makes human feeling is overwhelming anxiety, I don’t say all negative emotions are useless, negative emotions will be useful when there is something suspicious or unusual comes up suddenly to us, negative energy will not dominate your feeling if you don't doubt your true self, let me give you an example about the negative energy; negative energy can form almost everything in aspect of life, such as problem, swindle, rejection, failure, setback, betrayal, humiliation, error and risk, for average person, I am sure they are depressed if they get involved with it, here is the bad consequence; if negative thing in this life isn't being learnt by human, human can't optimize their power of emotional intelligence for making good decision when human don't have enough resources, we need to balance between positive emotion and negative emotion, if we let our positive emotion is dominating us, we will feel too excited when we get something easy or we behave overoptimistic, if we let our negative emotion is dominating us, we will feel depressed or sad, remember this ; we are the life designer, we can't create good life if we just focus on positive feeling or negative feeling, here is the second step how to recognize negative emotions: when we lack of resources, our negative emotions will try to dominate our logic, do you know why it is happening? Because negative emotions will strengthen its power when there is no knowledge, knowledge is super power because it can help us to decide whether we need to choose negative emotion or positive emotion, negative emotion will save us when we consider there is something dangerous in reality, whereas, positive emotion will save us when we live in rock bottom or we get the miserable life, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.