why people can't recognize to themselves?

  As we all know that there are many problems will come to everyone, mistake will come when he doesn’t know what he is doing wrong, the more mistake he makes, the more risk he will burden, actually the problem is like teaching someone how to maintenance the emotional intelligent, in fact he can't maintenance their emotional feeling, they bury their creative instead,  if this section still occur, so he will try to pinpoint the mistake to group of people who have not related anything to his problem, we should realize earlier that everyone who dwell in this world will face their own problem since they were born, so God believes the human being are capable to conquer their problem as long as they believe the God’s destiny

The main cause of a person cannot recognize himself

1. Depression or sadness caused by the experience made by him in the past, and the wound was made by his own fault and supported by broken home environment / family that is not friendly

2. Person who put his feeling of love the world so much and he cannot distinguish himself between the world of imagination and the real world so that his soul was trapped and was not dwelling to their physical body, this is called disassociation, he made himself like a doll and he was imagining as if he was watching himself on television

3. He always blame to others and consider himself to be right and not feeling himself wrong (bald face / face thick)

4. Existence of irregularity in itself (self-disorder) because only prioritizing his pleasure so that the activities he did lead to not clarity purpose / unclear object. So that the results achieved do not lead to good change and end up with the same result of failure.

5. He Thinks time travel can be repeated at any time but never think time will also end.

Why people become gay ?

      This topic we will try to deepen study about the human abnormality habit which is happening to society, becoming gay is part of social habit which is happening to somebody who has mental illness and disability to differentiate between the human nature and human personal life’s meaning. As we know human nature is having the part of complex thing which lay inside into the living body, like molecule, DNA, characteristic, skeleton, sensory organ, Etc. On the other side the human personal life is constituted by the human daily program such as eating, drinking, working in the factory, hang out with friend, enjoying party in the night with couple. Etc. 

      the biggest factor that can make people tend to become a gay is following the ideology which can lead people to impersonate the opposite gender's habit or ritual, Character deviation does not occur from birth, but because of an environment that deviates from religious rules, As we know the repetition will create something less to strong, and the repetition will create a new personal of human life, we can call it as the next self-copied generation, human life is generated by the process of consumption of social relationship such as associating with someone else in group, when they are feeling something good and feeling satisfaction, they will subdue their emotion feeling to their relationship. In addition someone who has a lack of knowledge in making human relationship, they are going to start doing unnatural in order to get something satisfaction in their personal life, sadly they don't know whether they do it for the right thing or bad thing, for their thinking ways is the part of the important thing in life is they are feeling satisfaction

for example : Mr. Alex will ask Ms. Bella to date in the Saturday’s night festival, but sadly Miss. Bella always make Mr. Alex feeling unhappy and making Mr. Alex feels wrongdoing, then they decide to break the relationship, after that  Mr. Alex will search another partner in order to impinge his problem to the mate, in another day Mr. Alex is making appointment with Mr. Charles (one of best friend) and they discuss about their personal life’s problem, luckily Mr. Charles has same problem as Mr. Alex did, they start to reveal what they feel in personal life, in the following day they feel good in making relationship without feeling the disappointment into each other, in order to satisfy their emotion feeling, Mr. Alex and Mr. Charles will search something unnatural to impinge their lust, for some unknown day the human nature  will be shifted at that time such as disaffection of sensory organ, so Mr. Alex and Mr. Charles start to become gay and their complex feeling will manipulate their lust finally they are not interested with woman in longer time.

    for preventing the next generation to become gay, we must learn this rule to them

1. they have to teach to the next generation how to learn the sociology

2. they have to deepen the religion knowledge in order to teach them how to recognize why man and woman are created to complete something

3. they have to search something natural in life such as learning sexual knowledge, such as human reproduction process, learn the dangerous of sexual harassment in order to satisfy one's lust for power

4. they have to search the good social community and join with them such as red-cross association, helping the hungry person, etc.

How can my idea works

                 In the industrial company or manufacturing company, the idea is usually betoken when the problem will appear, and every labor will do something in order to deal with his superior’s ideas. And furthermore the superior will excuse anyone’s idea which shape a new resourcefulness, this phase will give clue to everyone who has own idea, in few years ago there was philosopher and he claimed “the biggest value in this world was an idea, is not lying the sum of money in your account”. From that quote we can expand any idea from anyone else and make it as reference, but don’t easily take an idea before you ensure you can make it right because an idea can lead everyone to the right or lead everyone to the wrong place, it returns from what is capability everyone can manage.

          Maybe in your innermost feeling will speak “if everyone’s idea is making a new resourcefulness, but why idea can make everyone’s thinking bigger?”, to answer that question, we must separate between the resourcefulness and thinking big, first thing we should comprehend “the resourcefulness is part of human’s creative idea which is evolving to another place and also it will bring big impact or give the influence to someone else either in positive side or negative side” .in the other hand, the meaning of thinking big is someone who has passionate and he wants to realize his ambition to the new place which has never been known before. Now let me tell you how to know that your idea works, the first sign is other people use your idea and then they use it to solve for their problem, the second sign is the market will wait your progress even though you don't really need to do it, the third sign is whatever you do something, you feel enlightened with the learning process, I think my explanation is enough, good luck,

What should I do if I become jealous to others

               This topic will lead you to the common truth about the life of society who always be jealous when seeing something great in front of them, this is part of social living, so it is inevitable thing in this life, jealous is part of social level difference and everyone will understand despite difficulty to be standardized, when some people will try to surpass your knowledge and your skill, they seem to challenge you in order to prove which one will be better. To measure how deep the feeling jealous to someone else, we must distract his attention and try to catch what the most impact will make someone feels jealous, first thing we should know is a jealous man doesn’t like any competition because he is always worried and nervous.

              Feeling jealous is part of announcement that you must raise your standard before someone else will put his feeling of jealous upon you, jealous is not always having terrible but in the positive side, if you want to see someone else will be jealous to your success, you must do something that no one else can do like what you did in the past, then you keep consistent to do better than before, the more someone else becomes jealous the more you are stepping ahead, that’s prove you are very meant to be new, I know when someone is feeling jealous to others, this feeling will bring the consequent and will force your life to be broken down especially in standard of living, but if you are not willing to change yourself, you always be jealous person because you are losing self-control upon yourself and you let thousand people out there will step ahead.

              My suggestion is you should be having jealous characteristic to your success which is happening in the future, so your future’s success will motivate you automatically in this moment, becoming jealous to yourself is better rather than being jealous to someone else’ success because you can write down to your success’s story, in the end, let other people will be having jealous to you. 

How to know I can’t reach my idealism

              In this topic I would like to elucidate that idealism is part of perfect combination which is separated by the successful mindset and the social level, everybody has an idea which is going to be developed or it will be ruined, creating an idea is part of life process which is used for creating new system which is supposed to bring efficient to every human’s living.

              Idealism is still having a relative meaning to bring an impact into everyone’s social level because idealism is part of imagination which is created to measure how far the effort of human being can achieve to the latest target condition whether they already being successful person or being unsuccessful person in the beautiful stage, basically we can’t take part in and make severity judgment to person who isn’t getting at ideal success area,

               I am sure everyone has a target in life whether he bravely to follow his target’s movement or he is just following to someone else’s idealism, in life structure that idealism can’t be copied perfectly because God has created unique characteristic which is embedded to every human being, so when you feel you can’t achieve your ideal success because you want to become a second wall upon someone else’s success, the criteria how to deal with your idealism is you have to sincere and accept to the reality that you have to become yourself with your own developed life program, and furthermore you will recognize yourself more than someone else knows about you, don’t let anyone knows your weakness more than you, if it’s happening to you, so you can’t create your idealism program and also you can’t run with it,  finally you will become a laughingstock.

              Idealism will not provoke your life as long as you have deepest intention to accept the failure and accept from its consequent, in addition, the good news is when your greatest failure runs faster than your success’s movement, you are not going to complain again about your last result because you already surpassed your idealism stage.

Why the people become to be awkward?

In this topic I would like to talk about type of person, there are many characteristics which are chosen by human being but being awkward person is the part of perplexity you need to learn from it, so perplexity is one of major causes from someone who possess the unsystematic mindset.

The unsystematic mindset is coming from the human’s perfection belief system which lies into human attitude’s state and undeveloped information they have learned in the past, this is sound of absurdity, but this kind of person will receive more lesson of failure in this life.

Being awkward person is the kind of person, who has made the creative feeling although it can’t be dealt easily with human social level, he is creative, he looks stupid but one day when he succeeds to break his belief system, he will be ingenious person by having a multiplied resource because of his unique.

When you are considered by someone else as awkward person, don’t take it as your ultimate resource and implant it to your habit, but you can start to zero your mind and learn from somebody else’s reason, we can’t blame to somebody else reason because every human has resource to his mind. The ultimate failure in this life is being ignorant person because he deliberately ignores the resource.

I would like to remind you, do not easily act such as being pride person when you have been considered as awkward, all you need to do is ripping away your inessential thing in your daily habit, the awkward is not gift, but part of unsystematic mindset and it must be improved with new resource from the life’s belief system. The moment you should know is not about who you are today, but how you take the responsibility you have touched in this life, don’t easily complain about any critic from somebody else because you and him are wasting your time being in your any activity.

What the most important between reactive and proactive in business?

In this topic I would like to talk about the two of dominant character of human being, namely reactive and proactive, these characters will work when human determines to make respond whether he wants to work on the circumstance fields or he is willingly to work into the circumstance, what is the difference? Of course, there’s much different, when you are working into the circumstance, you prefer to choose and work as factory labor, employee staff, student, shopkeeper, Etc. But when you are working on to the circumstance, you prefer to choose and work as CEO, businessman, visionary leader, Etc.

if you’re kind of person who is having the reactive characteristic more dominant rather than proactive characteristic, you would better to spend more time to learn, also you will receive more and more resources from the place you spend with and the resource drives you to the fixed term and fixed life.

On the other hand if you are kind of person who is having the proactive characteristic more dominant rather than reactive characteristic, you are not going to learn everything unless you make a mistake, you will face more risky and you will find unlimited wealth within yourself, every mistake you make, you will get smarter. You may not go anywhere except you concentrate to face of every possibility and  every opportunity may happen.

I will remind you again, proactive character and reactive character are gift from God, He knows the human’s capacity, every human’s action will create reaction, and also there’s must be responsibility within itself, you are not allowed to forget about it, if you don’t know how to change your character from reactive to proactive, you must take the good example from the successful person and you must associate with proactive person, one day you will get the same result with proactive person does.

What is the obsessive mind?

In this topic I would like to talk about the obsessive mind, it’s often to be utilized by someone who trust his feeling to focus on particular thing or person because there‘s something attractive inside there, beside that obsessive mind sometimes can generate human’s willpower to make him thinks too much or concern to the object.

When you feel that you are having obsessive mind, you must have the strong reason enough before you embody it, the reason is important thing rather than feeling because the strong reason will make you possess the determination to take the consequent to your life path, and feeling unspecific object just makes the constant interruptions.

When you are student at adolescence age, you like to spend your time being to observe the comic book, the animation figure, the racer car, etc. what do you have in mind at that time, of course you feel everything around you can have it all, when do you have such idea? That’s coming from the obsessive mind.

The obsessive mind helps you to ignite your innermost feeling to learn something attractive and it keeps you busy such as businessman, as if you started to build your craft and you multiply the number of your craft and you sell it to somebody else.

The obsessive mind often transforms to the hobby such as hiking in the mountain, reading books, swimming, writer, catch a fish, Etc. when you like something that you think it is very important to you, you will observe it, spend your most time to do it, I would suggest that you keep going to do it as long as it has good influence to someone else. There’s good news; the obsessive mind will level your creative up and you can build the legacy to your own idea as many as you can, don’t let anyone else destroy your obsessive mind because that it is your ultimate resources.

What are the interests?

In this topic I would like to talk about what are interests? Does it have particular meaning from it, interest is part of the human’s satisfaction, it will help you to recognize the particular object and you can waste your time in order to get feeling satisfaction from it, By utilizing your interest, you just enjoy the object in the short time period, besides that you can express your largest lust to the object, maybe you will think and make a question “are interest can be one of my legacies?” of course interest is part of human resources and it becomes your legacies, but you must notice without any of interest, the human being has no activity to create the creativity or making something to be meaningless.

One of the human’s interests can be transformed into hobby when you want to explore and to deepen the knowledge about it, but if you are just wishing something without any passionate; your own resourcefulness will be an interest only, not evolve.

Please expand your interest to be unstoppable activity when you want to get better result from it, such as hobby, because when you already get older, your hobby can be handed down to your next generation and you unintentionally give the assistance, give help, give tips, give support to somebody else.

Feeling of interest existence can’t make you feel a vision ahead and you will be stuck to one time, when you want to repeat the circumstance with it, you always be stuck to one time, no progress, it’s just looping. I have figured it out of my mind and hopefully it will inspire you to improve your interests, this is example of interest: playing game station, idle to the mall, watch Film Theater, buy cloth, buy house, buy luxurious car, Etc.

There’s one thing you should remember, when your resources can’t be developed to the new field of endeavor, you should leave it because that’s part of wasting time by making interest, the figure of interest can be transformed to good purpose or bad purpose, but if your interest can be developed or can be trained from one time to another, that’s become your new resourcefulness.

What’s the meaning of thinking outside the box?

In this topic I would like to talk about the meaning of thinking outside the box, this adage has been heard by the entrepreneur’s ear in hundred years ago, in daily life this well-known phrase has been utilized in many years ago by the successful entrepreneur in order to improve the human principle, enhance the human mindset, achieve the excellent thing in particular thing and strip away the unessential thing in this life.

I will explain the details about thinking outside the box’s phrase to make you comprehended better, please imagine that the box is your mindset which is having insurmountable problems, when you keep thinking and thinking again with the same problem, but the result is no loose ends.

Thinking getting thinking is an activity which is not making you to be happier person because you just concoct an excuse ahead and you unknowingly repeat the same habit in your daily ritual, please look at the mixing bowl for example, once you keep thinking and thinking to the same problem, you act as if somebody who is mixing the dough in the bowl, the bowl has the same value as your mindset, once you mix up the dough into the bowl, it is going make you perplexed, not evolving. In addition, the dough is only trapping you to the same space and loop.

You must take a note; the more you keep thinking with the same method, the less revolution you will get from it, that’s main reason I suggest you utilize “think outside the box” phrase, there’s additional note, you have to commit by compelling your desire in your daily ritual.

These are 3 steps will help to change your life, the first step you should do is make a list to your textbook and write down your entire valuable thing you have into the textbook, the second step you should do is reduce doing the unproductive activity such as watching television program, idle away to the mall, associate with friends so often, Etc. the third step you should do is keep learning from many resourcefulness out of your daily ritual.

How to find your passion?

Today I would like to share about passion, as far I know every people believe they have own luck to be prevailed in the reality life but to fulfill our passion, we need to make preparation to find our passion, once we don’t truly want to make preparation, we will not find passion to engage intuition which is informing in our subconscious mind.

Passion is like fuel, before you refill your ambition with fuel, the first thing you prepare is making a long term plan and explore the thing you want to build, the second thing you need to prepare is making conviction and prove that you deserve to win, the third thing you need to prepare is finding the lost love, you need to build something such as building your creativity by studying the most interesting subject which is making you interested, build your creation to make you different, build your ingenuity to solve other people’s problem.

Please remember this note: passion will not get away from you if you put your right mindset to the creation you want to build, passion will be alive when you discipline your mind and your body to build a freaking dream into passion, those people who are making themselves interested with their dream, those people will never doubted about what they have done and also they have never argued about mistake and failure because they know they will meet mistake.

You may reject the failure and mistake in one time, but every productive mistake will not forget your effort because the productive mistake will evoke your mindset to keep doing the target once you find difficulties, passion will let you to make the productive mistake because that’s only way how to keep you move forward, in addition, when you do something the same over and over again in the same standard, you will not find your passion because passion will be detected when you make a lot of progress in different level, if you really want to know when your passion works, you must provide something big to other people’s needs in short term period or in the long term period, that’s secret to get success in passion.

Why every word is reflecting our standard?

Today in this article I would like to talk about the reflection between the human’s words with the human’s virtue, as we know that every word is used to describe about the human’s standard, if we review a bit in the social media, many people like to give comments about the event, the rumor, the good stuff, the news, etc. but in the end they still don’t recognize about the meaning of their comment, I directly think about “what lesson I should pick up from that comment?”

your quality of words make you different rather than common people

If everybody comments to the social media and popularize their words of mouth, is there any benefit? what benefits I should take from them? My point of thinking is every word will reflect about the human’s virtue, if there’s no good value from every human’s word, why are we insisting to popularize it, if everybody in this world does the same behavior, this world is so boring and becoming unattractive model.

I guess very few people can recognize about their talks because they think the word of mouth is the human's lifestyle, not describing about the power of emotional feeling, people will not concern whether there’s meaningful words or not, the implication of words are drawing about the illustration in our future, meaning; the less value we talk, less opportunity we can take, the more value we talk, the more listener or viewer will attend for us, whether we are considered as the important person or not, all depend on our power of words.

As we know that word of mouth has the unlimited power to create new potential such as open the human’s mind, close the human’s mind, raise up the human’s spirit, embrace the opportunity, embrace the crisis, calm the overexcited, turn off the  unclear expectation, healing the human’s pain, increase the suffering, destroy the human’s reputation, lower the anger, ignite the dispute and etc.

the word of mouth can change everything seems impossible

Now we can conclude the power of words of mouth is part of the human’s standard, standard will not make you becoming successful person, but standard is helping you to learn how to keep away from the crisis of life, the more standard you embrace the more opportunity you will make, the more momentum you create, the more powerful you push down the crisis of life, and the less standard you have, the more crisis will push you down in momentum, it’s law,  now if you tell me why every word reflects to our standard because that the power of words will give you an option how to fulfill the career, the speaking class is representing the human’s lifestyle which is guiding us to make our life more delightful. 

Why we need empathy during making creativity?

Today I would like to talk about the reason why we need empathy during making creativity, many people consider empathy is how to transfer the one’s value to another one, and then the creativity value can’t be considered to satisfy the personal satisfaction, but the creativity value for mankind's kindness.

painting on the canvas is representing your personality

 I will give you an example; there’s 1 painting, full of bright color and it is being put to the museum convention area, but not at all want to see that painting canvas because most people don’t know about the value of painting even though we need to pay cash to enter to that museum, but another place in the street, there is 1 of ordinary painting, the canvas has been made from the worn out of canvas, and it has been put to the street, but why many people are enjoying that painting, because the creativity is not being made to popularize personal’s life style, but the creativity is just showing the human empathy result which is transferred to ignite other human’s expression and the creativity has been utilized to create other people’s value, that’s true purpose of creativity in painting.

The creativity doesn’t work when you just create it for fulfilling your satisfaction, the creativity will be living with you when you make it for other people’s kindness, the creativity is made and shaped to juice your knowledge and your ideas, the creativity will not grow when there’s no empathy within, if someone wants to put tattoo in his body, hand, leg and his neck, that’s not creativity, it’s self-destruction, the reason is the injection’s will blockade the blood vessel’s process and it will shape the clogged to the blood, one day we will meet the effect of our action and once the right time comes to us, a that time we will not able to repent for everlasting.

Doing something for nothing

Today I would like to talk about the topic “doing something for nothing”, maybe it is rarely to be discussed, but I will share my mean to you, the meaning of doing something for nothing is expressing about curiosity and appreciation about this life, you may doubt my opinion, but you will not escape from the life’s game namely “the gift never ask the returns to the receiver but the receiver must take responsibility from it”.

What will we do when we offer some people to do something for nothing?  I predict most people 85% will refuse this offering because they prioritize to obtain the amount of treasure rather than considering the unlimited gift which is invisible, 15 % people who want to do something for nothing, means they are not going to think about the treasure at the first time, but they believe the greatest rewards are lies behind the risk and crisis in life, when we continue to think about the end result, the only thing we engage in the future is nothing, there’s no valuable thing can be attained except we engage the hopelessness in life.

In the contrary, when we are doing something for nothing, means there is something great thing awaits us in the future, the only thing we need to do is discipline our mind and we insist to become a great participant, the next thing we do is using the ingenuity to produce the greatest things for the mankind’s kindness, if we focus to respect about the hardest thing in process, that means we are going to build the visible dream.

The unexpected gift will be given for type of person who wants to do something for nothing and he used the relentless spirit to reveal the truth, that’s good point if we seek behind the that statement’s meaning, there’s other important thing, when we just do something we can do, we never engage the opportunity, doing something in the same standard, that mean we only prioritize to satisfy personal’s satisfaction, when we just think about the material world, our soul will never feel enough about it, indeed the material world will gnaw our spirit until there’s no light will turn us on,

we need the extrinsic motivation to keep us going

so we need to borrow the true power from this universe to spread the sign of GOD through doing something for nothing, if we can’t make it happen, just keep breathing and keep the world peace, the biggest reward for people who spend the restrict time by doing something for nothing is the patience, I know the patience is not easy to deal with it, but here is the good news, the patience is not ability for pleasing the great participant but it can evoke the great participant’s mindset to keep attitude during doing something for nothing.