relaxation near nature is must |
These blogs are designed how to learn more about human's mindset, behavior, habit and deep belief, plus, observe about the life system and philosophy.
Relaxation techniques
Doing the right thing at the right time
Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back
with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness,
health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the
topic “Doing the right thing at the right time”, the main reason why I choose that
topic because it reminds me about God’s plan, He said in the Koran Surah Al
Mu’minun (23) verse 115 “did you think that we created you uselessly and that
to us you would not be returned?”, the meaning of that verse; every single
human is prepared to do the right thing and every decision we can choose is going to
be our responsibility and it would be returned to God, if we spend our major time to do something useless and our action can invite the dangerous to the
future, that’s mean, we lose our essence of living and our life path will enter
into darkness automatically, before we spend our time to do something, we
must analyze about the root cause first before we plan to do something, if what we do can't increase our enthusiasm and it can't build good habit for the future, that means, we're doing the wrong thing, if we are making habit of bad thing, it will prophesy our
future and we will never escape to accept a bad consequence, the criteria how to do the right thing is we must feel overwhelmed, if we don't, we aren't growing,
in my opinion; if we feel overwhelmed, it's part of creating a new good habit, don't hope doing the right thing is easy, to attract good thing in our lives is not easy because we must leave those people who can’t teach us how to do the right thing, it is not cruel way, but this is firm decision which can drive you to the higher different level from previous challenge,
Remember this note; we will never feel enough if we just receive something bigger from other people’s help without we are making balance by giving something bigger to others, I just want to remind you about the universe's law, "if we want to get something bigger, we must give something bigger, if we want to attract many great people in our lives, we must become great person who can offer the good value to the great people, if we want to marry with kind person, we must become kind person", that's universe's law, the first attempt how to start doing the right thing is we need to have good intention and long term preparation, the problem why most people can't make long term preparation because they lack of positive vibration, at this moment I would share about several benefit of positive vibration, here is the first benefit if we can attract positive vibration: we will be pursued by the abundance of life, means, we can get more idea easily wherever we go and we will not feel lacking of possessions although we aren't the rich person, to get pursued by the abundance of life, we must do the right thing repeatedly at least 5 years until we obtain new personality, it’s impossible for us to do the right thing if we own negative vibration, we need several years of good habit in order to accelerate our subconscious mind's signal which it tries to attract good vibration, here is the second benefit if we can attract positive vibration; we feel enthusiast every time we attempt to learn something new and we don’t feel working in pressure, based on that statement, we can conclude that feeling joy while we do something in daily routine is better rather than we earn a lot of money with a boring job, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.
Best way to improve concentration
Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Best way to improve concentration”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone focuses about how to make their better, the root cause why they can't focus how to make better life because most of them use their focus how to get something easily and not to do something which they never did, if they keep focusing how to get something easily without any desire to learn more, they have indulged in their own fear, worry and other destructive form of thinking, eventually their subconscious mind will accept their negative thoughts as main command, remember this advice; before we wish to get something good, we have to make worse case scenario as anticipation before the bad thing appears in our lives, although disaster is not always happening in our lives, at least we must measure our cost of learning and our cost of living, if we can't control our will, our focus can't get improved, the first thing we need to know before we want control our will is we focus on our capability and our mental capacity, to estimate our capability, we must know about time length we need to learn it before the real problem came, whereas, to estimate our mental capacity, we need to challenge our curiosity to take more responsibility.
Now let me give you illustration how to use focus to the good destination; there is someone who has financial problem almost 20 years, he always works hard at the company, but he still has financial problem again and again, if he just focuses how to get more money, he will never find solution how to get out from financial problem, but if he studies about financial education, such as how to control expenses, spending habit, finally he doesn't get financial problem, from the short story above, we can conclude that "if we focus on the good, the good gets better", here is the best way to improve concentration is stop expanding your hope and don't underestimate what you can do, the reason why you must stop doing this because there is nothing can guarantee our hope and we aren't authorized to control our time, basically, there is no time management, there is only priority management, if we don't know about the future, what we can do as human being is how to focus on the learning process and stay concentrated to the clear target we have set, remember; our focus is like laser rays, we can improve our concentration if we always do something which resonates with our enthusiasm, if we focus on what we are interested, we will get the abundance of life, if we just focus on what makes our feeling is uninterested, as impact, we will lose our disciplined action and enthusiasm, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.
My careers future
Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me,
Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health
and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “My careers future”, the main reason why I choose that topic because
not everyone can take day off from their career although there is holiday, some people can’t take holiday because they believe working hard will create a bright career, meanwhile they forget that their career time is very limited, as long as people just sell their time and effort to make money without making defense a strategy how to make money while they can sleep, it is like a life sentence, remember this; human is social creature, we shouldn't spend our major time to pursue career only, we can cooperate with management system where it can bridge between our masterpiece and the marketplace or we delegate other people to do something different when we are not always around for them, do
you know why many people are tied tightly with their own career because they see their career like as gold mining and they don’t see their career like leaving a legacy, do you understand what I mean "leaving legacy"? It means, you must delegate what you can't control to the universe or other people or the management system to do something bigger after you have shown your dedication and commitment in your career, as long as people can’t find a way how to make their career working while they are sleeping, people’s career will push themselves to keep working until
they can’t take holiday or day off whenever they want, you must beware about your typical of career, pursuing the career can’t make you happy if you just intend to get money as the final goal, you have to ensure what you do in career will improve other people’s lives and
If your career is creating a life sentence for you, that’s means, there is something wrong with your philosophy and you just commit yourself how to be entertained, good career can unlock your potential, not unlock your bad mood, you have to find a role model which can educate you how to improve your philosophy and you must have strong willingness to adapt with new adversity, you have to embrace with new adversity because it can alter your course of your life forever, the purpose of adversity in this life is making you adapted with new responsibility, to adapt with new responsibility, you have to practice your philosophy until it can change your ritual and habit, if adversity can change your philosophy to be better, your career will not give you a life sentence, good career will not educate you how to make money in short period of time, but it can educate you how to build a better personality and it increases your standard of troubleshooting, if your career can increase your developed moral sense, you can continue your career and let other people know more about your service, the most difficult situation in career pursuit is when other people can’t appreciate your value and they devalue what you struggle for them, if your career knows what people complain and your career knows what people hope, your career will take off to the next level, remember this; if you think many people avoid to do what you do in your career, it doesn’t mean there is no opportunity at all, in opposite, opportunity comes when there is nobody can do what you do for them, your career is not giving a guarantee to other people’s lives, but your career is to ensure what people see your life as the mirror of good life, I think my explanation is enough hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.
How do i get more flexible
Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back
with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness,
health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic
“How do i get more flexible”, the reason why I choose that topic because not
everyone is willing to adapt with new change, the main problem why people can't adapt with new change because they are too loyal
with their belief system until they can't escape from it, so whatever they behave, they feel and they think, the process leads them into recession, remember this; every circumstance in life offers new change,
if we aren’t ready to adapt with it, our subconscious mind indirectly gives us
the signal how to use negative thoughts into our behavior, such as angry,
disappointed, unmotivated, revenge and regret, where
is lies the problem? The problem comes in when people lack about the flexibility of will which may give them new authority to level up their capability, here is the note; "the more we know less about knowledge, the pain of regret will grow more", "the more we know
more, the more we learn more", the conclusion from that advice is we must stay flexibility with what the life really wants, if we stay learning like a new student, the power
of our will is going to diminish our lacking of resourcefulness, the main cause why we still fail again and
again in the same level because we lack of flexibility of our commitment to try something else, the bleak future is
going to happen when we are unable to offer something valuable to other people, don't let our life journey will
live stagnant over the past few years because of our inflexibility towards the subject where we don't want to learn.
More flexible by keep trying |
The future is not going to wait us if we don’t prepare our trump card, the power of will is not causing our life path to recession, but inflexibility to change is causing us to live in the same problem, starting from now, we must stop doing where it can’t increase our mental capacity, such as playing the online game for many hours, watching TV or cinema more than 2 hours, playing social media more than 4 hours a day for fun only, here are the negative impacts if we can’t adapt with new circumstance; we will destroy our future’s hope, we will be forced to live into some places where we don’t think it is suitable for us, we will be pushed to use something we don’t really want to use, we will wear something we don’t want to wear, maybe we think life is cruel, it totally wrong, we just need to be more flexible, here is the first thing how I get more flexible; we change the plan when reality doesn't support what we do, the reason why we need to do like this because reality can't be changed, all we can do is adapt with reality, here is the second thing how I get more flexible; we treat the available problem like our customer, meaning, we don't complain when problem is approaching us, if we can apply like that, we don't get squeezed by the problem pressure, life is happening to us based on the type of response we send into it, life is like the mirror, if we don't like about our lives, life will attract something that can make us disgusted, we can’t blame everyone else about our misfortune, starting from today, we should train our mental strength more flexible so that we don't feel too perplexed when there is sudden problem, remember; the most pain which it is incurable, namely regret, we must realize something about the risk which lies into what we do before we let our time puts the pain of regret in our lives, I think my explanation is enough hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.
Commitment in the workplace
Strong man only focus on commitment, not result |
Strong man is having strong work commitment |
Fixed mindset examples
Fixed mindset person does nothing |
Hi good reader, welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of health, wealth and happiness, today I would like to share about topic "fixed mindset examples", the main reason why I choose that topic because almost everyone in the world has ever tasted fixed mindset, as we know that fixed mindset is totally different with growth mindset, people who have fixed mindset, they have several features; they tend to ignore new perceptive idea from other people, they tend to reject a new change from the market demand, they tend to stop learning because they are satisfied easily with the last achievement, they tend to get angry when there is an extreme change, they aren't enthusiast to do something new, they hate with failure, rejection, adversity, uncertainty, etc. Now my question to you is "are you having those features of fixed mindset?" , in order to change people whose fixed mindset, we must give them the endurance test or new challenge which can force people's habit to do something different, maybe you give people with punishment and reward strategy, for example; you have child, you tell to him "son, if your exam test has achieved average score around 70 in every compulsory subject, I will give you a ticket to go abroad for picnic, but if you fail to get average score around 70 or you get below 70 average score, you must commit to clean the house including your room every day until one month", maybe some people think that strategy is very cruel, it is not true, this strategy will help that child to dig his potential to learn something good in order to avoid the punishment, at the same situation, child's enthusiasm starts increasing because he wants to achieve the target and also get the reward as well.
Fixed mindset person doesn't recognize his blind spot |
Let me give you fixed mindset examples, "people are too satisfied with the result until they aren't feel challenged to do something they have never did", maybe you will think that type of people will like with fixed mindset, it is wrong, fixed mindset will born when people consider benefit is the end destination of life journey, life will put us in the same situation again and again when we always do something easier and instant like we did before, the real problem in life comes from fixed belief, not economy crisis or natural disaster, human's potential will not increase if human's brain capacity isn't growing, starting from now, we must select type of person who will offer us a fixed mindset paradigm or growth mindset paradigm, if there is person just gives you a sensational news, you would better to let go from him because the information he gives it to you has no high value, here is the special note; "what you think is what you become", when you feel desperate or feel inferior or feel give up easily, you indirectly build fixed mindset, not growth mindset, I think my explanation is done, hopefully this information can give you a new idea how to improve your life, good luck.
Happy careers that pay well
Happy career will develop your curiosity |
Happy career will connect with good partners |
Behavior definition
Good behavior always follows the one clear direction |
Hi, good reader? howdy, welcome back with me, Fian, I hope you always have the abundance of health, wealth and happiness, today I would like to share about the topic "Behavior definition", the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone wants to adapt with their behavior, many people prefer to pursue what they desire rather than to follow what their behavior wants, meaning, there is big difference between desire and behavior, desire is just a part of illusion / false belief which can give a high pressure to one's mind, whereas, behavior is part of mental state which creates real action which follows one clear direction until its process is done, let me explain to you about the behavior definition; act of realizing what has been started and keep continuing the clear direction until its journey will complete, if you ask me why many people give up to chase their dream because they don't realize that their behavior is totally opposite with their endurance level, besides that, people don't realize that every dream offers a high pressure which demands everyone's mind to pursue it, people who don't improve their endurance level regularly, their behavior tends to avoid what their dream wants, in addition, human's behavior tends to avoid something which offers unpleasant feeling, if we use different perception "there is no difficult term in any career if we love to try something even though we aren't sure to do", our job as human being is not convincing ourselves to finish everything until it is over, our job is ensuring our behavior is in line with the direction we have headed, that's enough, here is my recommendation to you; don't use your focus to pursue something pleasant if you want your behavior is able to attract something bigger than what you imagine, you must do something not because you want to get money or fame, you must have intention to do something useful for dealing with uncertain future, your future investment lies in your knowledge, endurance and awareness, if you use your knowledge, your endurance and your awareness can make a better life for others, your behavior will demand the skill to follow your command and your behavior will help you to manifest what you need in the future.
Sad is caused by poor behavior |