bad self esteem is not talking about you, but talking about your expectation |
Today I would like to talk about bad self
esteem, many people are trapped in the bad experience and most people tend to
repeat their memorial story with new venture because they think the future will
repeat the past memory, that is the major problem i need to share with you, as
we know the happiness can guide you to the sanctuary place and also the
happiness can teach you how to be a new person beyond your imagination, the bad self esteem is kind of mental
disease which ensuring the ordinary people will demand the expectation from
others rather than prepare something to be waited by expectation.
bad self esteem is refusing the big chances |
I am really sure everybody has ever tasted
bad during obtaining self esteem, the reason why people will taste bad in life
during maintaining self esteem because there’s law how to get self esteem,
a life test is suffering, when you can survive during taste suffering, you will
get happy, otherwise when you will not survive during taste suffering, you will
be prison in your self esteem, it’s law.
Self esteem has no border to define between
who you are today and what truly you become in the future, so sometimes we are
forced to feel unfairly treatment during fulfilling career because life wants
to teach us how to prepare the precious thing we have ever had in this life.
Life guides us to see the unfairly
treatment in order to make us learn how to survive, I am really sure there is
no one in this world wants to taste the unfairly treatment, if
people want to taste the unfairly treatment, they can’t get self-motivated due
to they tend to avoid suffering and pain, sometimes we are forced to choose
the pain or we will choose the pain to build self esteem, that is bad effect
during building the self esteem, on the other hand we will get happiness and on
other side we feel like a hostage to fortune.
self esteem always prepare the valuable things for himself and others |
Before we build self esteem, we must
determine what kind of risk we should pick, please take note: every satisfaction has different meaning
with self esteem and satisfaction tends to lead us refusing any big change from
us, whereas self esteem tends to lead us to keep improving with our quality of
ability and also we must engage any risk once it is needed.