Today
I would like to share about how to recognize the sign of human emotion behind
anger, I am sure everybody once became a victim of the circumstance, the main
cause is not coming from the circumstance but they failed to filter which best
decision should be made at that time, the intelligent people just rely on intellectual intelligent rather than emotional intelligent, please note; life doesn’t compromise
about the circumstance you’re involved with, life is the kind of machine which
it needs your qualification as the raw material and machine will proceed your qualification
no matter how long the time will be needed, life doesn’t need you know how it
works the process but life needs you to believe the process, when you
can control your anger, by that it means you become life maker.
I will tell you
something that anger doesn’t need your patience but anger needs your philosophy to control it, so if you want to control anger for long
time, you have to learn about philosophy, change your physiology and apply them in your
daily activity, the reason why we need to study about philosophy and physiology because both of them know how to handle the anger and it can change from the
feeling of anger to the feeling of inspiration, we can’t defeat the anger by behaving silent and calm person, but we
need defeat the anger by becoming philosopher, then let natural skill within you
will help you to neutralize anger, before the emotional intelligent will change into anger, we need to retool ourselves with the uncomfortable circumstance in order to neutralize the side effect of anger, the
formula how to handle the anger is being good asker.
The reason why I advise such thing because
every qualified question will multiply our reasoning to step forward and leave
the feeling of anger, so if you
think you learn how to handle your sensible way, the first thing you need to do
is defeat your anger by having role reversal characteristic, it means you need to shift your
emotion by doing something thoughtful, such as being busy person by
helping other people whom need your logical thinking, when you accustom by doing that habit, unwittingly you will forget about your
anger and you will meet happiness in any circumstance, so before
you get angry, make sure you will keep distracting your focus to another
direction, you may not able to change your anger overnight but you can change
your direction overnight, I know you may difficult to defeat your
anger, at least if you change your focus point to another point, hopefully this article will give you the enlightenment how to handle your anger.