Insecure relationship prefers to prioritize ego |
Hi, good reader, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, I hope you always have the abundance of health, wealth and happiness, Today I would like to
share the topic "Insecure relationship", the reason why I choose that topic because many couples are trapped into insecure relationship, if you ask me what factor that can make people are trapped into insecure relationship because they don't have any information how to detect the sign of insecure relationship, it makes a sense, am I right?, the first sign of insecure relationship is person you love doesn't have any urgent intimacy proximity with you, person who feels in love, he/she will sacrifice to you, either to contact you by phone, meet you in person or visit your location, person who puts you into insecure relationship, he/she will not prioritize you even though he/she is busy, besides that, you feel unwelcomed when person you love doesn't contact you, sometimes you need to give a limited time to yourself and person you love, if there is no communication once in 1 or 2 month, meaning, there is no relationship, so you don't need to defend that relationship.
Insecure relationship offers insecure feeling |
Remember; if person really needs you, he/she will consider you as the resource maker, if person doesn't really need you, he/she will put you in friend zone, now my question is "are you ready when you are considered as friend by someone whom you loved?" basically, love and business's rule are almost connected into each other, if you and your partner are needing each other, that's business in love, you and person you loved are working together to build an intimacy and confidence, if you aren't confident when you make relationship with someone you loved, that means, your partner is not suitable for you, here is the second sign of insecure relationship is there is no seriousness to talk about the future plan, meaning, you and your partner are busy with private matter, that's problem, if there is no togetherness to discuss something, which means, there is no relationship will happen, here is the third sign of insecure relationship is find the partner's weakness point and blame it, this is not part of good manner, I would advise you to avoid someone who has bad manner if you want to get secure relationship, find the flexibility in imperfect relationship, that's the key how to defend long term relationship, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this information can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.