Today I would
like to talk about how to make big deal with insecure people, many people
consider insecure people will need secure area to protect them from the injustice
treatment, but in the reality the insecure people have always consider small
problem becomes serious problem and the insecure people are always run away
from the responsibility, if we want to
make deal with insecure people, we should not interfere what they are doing for
the moment because we will get ourselves trapped into new problem
.
There are
several ways how to make deal with insecure people, the first thing we should do is saying “yes” when insecure people
start to make accusation to us, sometimes we need to hear the insecure people’s
judgment until they can understand the missing piece of their own judgment,
the
reason why we don’t need to give a good feedback to insecure people because
they will put serious problem into us until we feel distress about it,
so I guess saying yes to insecure people, means we will not give agreement for our
behalf, but we will make them feeling happier by agreeing with their opinion,
please note; wherever the insecure people are going to somewhere place,
insecure people always can’t adapt quickly with circumstance, including they
can’t accept our opinion or can’t accept our gift.
The second thing
we should do when we make deal with insecure people is don’t talk too much to
them because our talks will become deadly weapon and they use it to manipulate
our ideas to make us notice about our small mistake in the past and insecure
people will give us a bad reputation, that’s very dangerous thing, so I think
keep silent is the best respond to make them feel good, so we don’t need to
bother what insecure people doing, temporary treatment we can give to them is staying
away from them is good choice, means we should not talk, we should not notice,
we should not care what they are doing and so let the problem will cure their
habit.
Basically insecure
people need the special treatment rather than ourselves, the reason why
insecure people need special treatment because they feel punishment is coming
from their selfishness, please remember that insecure people always
behave indifferent and selfishness, their mindset is considering outsider
people is just attacker, insecure people only care about their community
and they always consider they are being importance rather than outsider people,
they make circle to protect their community and they start to put insecure
treatment when outsider people coming, please be patient and keep distance with
them because one day they will seek you and they need you badly no matter how
far you go away, so the
conclusion we can take from this article is insecure people always need secure
people.