In daily life, we often get bumped with the social bonds problems, such as the economic inequality, the racial inequality, the knowledge inequality and the lifestyle inequality, that's life competition, if we are not ready to accept those condition, we will become troublemaker, so we need to design our life story by gifting ourselves first, such as stopping the chain of bad habit in order to discard the inessential thing which it's embedded into our past memories, accept the unacceptable thing from the fact, stop cursing our future, forgiving ourselves by refining our philosophy and unlearn from our bad judgment towards new problem, if we can't make good life journey pattern, as impact, our inborn skill, our masterpiece, our personality and our reputation are rejected by the outer world competition.
We don’t need to change other people's philosophy because everyone has quota of mistakes from their great mistakes, sometimes not all philosophy are acceptable, we need to motivate ourselves with inspirational story before we share to others, from bad influence we can measure how tough our maturity when we face the unexceptional mistake, so we can learn how to defend our attitude and protect our mindset when we face the bad influence, remember this; forgiving others is an act of maturity and stop living from bad influence also is part of self-maturity, there is no bad person in this world, there
is only a bad influence maker, we should attack human’s bad influence, not
attacking human’s existence, before you gift something to yourself, make sure you already gift yourself with good influence, that's act of maturity.