Being narcissistic |
Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance
of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “How to win an argument against a narcissist”, the main reason why I choose
that topic because many people feel offended when they start arguing with other people who behave self-boasting or narcissist, if you ask me why we need to win an argument against a narcissist because he / she prefer to claim something where it shouldn't be disclosed in the public place or in the open area, if we look at in reality, many people try to boast what they already have rather than they show their humility as the way of manner, here is the first strategy how to win an argument against a narcissist; you mustn't reveal the narcissist's past achievement when you start an argument, do you know why ? because the narcissist starts labelling you whenever he wants with something you don't want to hear it, here is the fact; the more you discuss about narcissists achievement, he will burden you with something you feel hatred.
a narcissist posture. |
Here is the second strategy how to win an argument against a narcissist; don't try to follow narcissist's communication style, the reason why you mustn't allow yourself to follow narcissist communication style because he will give you a bad remark like "you can't be better if you don't follow my leads, if you follow my leads, you can get whatever you want", my suggestion is you follow your communication style and don't try to copy whatever a narcissist has possessed, here is the third strategy how to win an argument against a narcissist; try to find the opposite words from the way of speaking, meaning, you must find a meaningful word where it can make a narcissist disappointed, for example; when a narcissist tells you "you can't do anything you want without my help", so you can blockade that words from a narcissist by saying "even though you can facilitate my need, it doesn't mean you can support me all the time, you and I have limited time and limited capacity, so you can't be all right every time", I am very sure a narcissist starts being mad when he hears it, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully
this article can give you an idea how to improve your daily life, good luck.