Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance
of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic
“Fear is a choice”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people consider fear is a must, in fact, fear is choice, fear is part of what we don't know about something and also fear is signal that there is something dangerous approaching, if we just focus on what we fear, our fear will paralyze us, if we focus on what we aspire, we can create a new hope, the difference between successful people and unsuccessful people depend on what they perceive about their sense of fearfulness, successful people use their fearfulness to create well preparedness and create the excited anticipation earlier before their sense of fearfulness is paralyzing them, whereas, unsuccessful people reject their fearfulness and choose to stay away from it, remember this note; the main problem why people fear because their inner capacity can't sustain new adversity, but the source of fear is unpreparedness, if we realize that we lack of unprepared skill, why we just wait for help and not try something beyond our daily routine?, the most difficult in life is not talking about danger or problem, but how to unlock self-ignorance and learn to accept the darkness in life, here is my suggestion; don't ever hate about the darkness because sometimes darkness can develop our survival instinct during we face the dangerous thing which makes us panic.
Sometimes we will be mad when we our fear is growing, in order to minimize our fear is find the new information related to what we fear, remember this advice; fear is neutral, if we approach fear, we will learn something new, if we avoid fear, we will face the same problem again and again, the
main reason why we need to learn from fear because there is nothing can teach us to make a better life unless our fear is showing us, at this point, I would like to share some strategies how to optimize our fear, here is the first strategy how to optimize our fear; we don't react when there is something unknown is coming, if we just give our reaction to fear, we will paralyzed, so I don't recommend it, here is the second strategy how to optimize our fear; we just need to observe what will happen without panic, if we just show our panic to the object, we can't find any solution because our fear level is bigger than our logic, being observer doesn't mean to do nothing, but we stay concentrated to what we observe still until our fear is gone, remember; fear is temporary, but know how not to fear is permanent solution, if we focus how to make new possibility, we can reduce the risk of fear, I think my explanation is enough,
hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good
luck.