Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you
always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would
like to share about topic “Avoidant attachment”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not all people want to socialize with other people, so they tend to live cautiously and not to gather around with people who are considered to be unqualified person, if you ask me why some people are having avoidant attachment because they have a bad term with the past people who didn't hold responsibility very well, they tend to hard to believe with people who are irresponsible with their job, their commitment and their loyalty, as we live in the part of social people, we can't avoid the bad memory or bad experience with other people in the past, all we can do as the next generation is being revolutionary maker, meaning, we become the independent person, I know it is hard to do, but if we can pass through this challenge, we will never be the same person for everlasting.
Remember this note; we are not always getting something we wished, sometimes we need to forgive ourselves from inevitable journey, such as betrayal, wildly expectation and instant gratification, if we just tail ourselves with the jerk people, as impact, our lives will get stuck between dilemma and reality, here is the first reason why people are having avoidant attachment; people don't build personal branding in themselves, as long as people don't build personal branding for several years, what they do is making themselves feel hatred with themselves and they will live like a prisoner, here is the second reason why people are having avoidant attachment; people build desperate living, we can't do something better if we don't try to associate with highly valuable people, here is the third reason why people are having avoidant attachment; people behave self-righteousness, remember; self- righteousness is different with self-esteem, self-righteousness is keeping themselves in the limitation, whereas, self-esteem is part of human's revolutionary habit, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully
this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.