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| change complaining habit into compliment habit |
Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the
abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share
about topic “How to stop complaining”, the main reason why I choose that topic because complaining habit can create new problem which can block our awareness to obtain good opportunity, besides that, complaining about something we don’t understand will create new mental block in our subconscious mind which it can make us stayed away from the enlightenment, in this article let me
share something to you about several factors why we complain, here is the
first factor why we complain; we lack of the survival skill, this skill is very crucial because it will guide
human how to stay enduring the life pressure, the survival skill covers reading book, practice our inborn skill, embrace new problem, learn how to create self compassion when there is no money around, remember; lack of survival skill is like finding the leftover food at the garbage, so before you lack of survival skill, you have to prepare your mentality first, in reality you must have ability to sell your ability to other people who really need your assistance before you run out of provision, if you have children, you can practice children's ability how to learn new language, learn how to have good attitude, if we lack of survival skill, we will endure high pressure from reality, have you ever calculate how much sacrifice do other people make for our future? I am sure it is not much, do you know why? because people think "every person has own responsibility", besides that, not everyone can satisfy ourselves, in order to avoid the conflict between people to another one, we need to reduce the dependency factor from other people's provision and we can start creating our own purpose, remember this note; the more we depend other people's power, the more we have a chance to complain, the less we depend other people's power, the less we have a chance to complain.
Here is the second factor why we complain; we aren’t ready how to do more than what we normally do, the reason why we need to do more than we receive because it can create self-demanding habit, in my insight, this habit is more important than other positive habit because not everyone can plan something better for us, so we can't rely other people's help for everlasting, so we need to challenge ourselves by doing more than we normally do, now there
are 3 tips how to stop complaining habit; here is the first tip how to stop
complaining habit; taking more responsibility to serve what most people need and always demand yourself to do good deeds than what you normally do, the
reason why I recommend such thing because life will not get easier, you must
prepare your provision at any time, the life crisis will come soon or later, here is
the second tip how to stop complaining habit; making strictly plan and stay
curious about the new goal you want to achieve it in the future, the reason
why I recommend such thing because making strictly plan keeps you focus about something you never did before, besides that, having deep curiosity will help you to forget about your past moment which can disturb your focus, here is the third tip how to
stop complaining habit; hanging out with successful people who have passed the unpleasant experience, so you can learn something positively from successful people’s habit, the reason why I recommend such thing because hanging out with successful people will educate you how to appreciate every gift from Almighty God and also you can learn from how successful people survive from the crisis, I think my
explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to
improve your life, good luck.