Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the
abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to
share about the topic “What causes fear of failure”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not
everyone is willing to accept the failure, some of them consider failure is kind of humiliation and some people think failure is part of lazy, in fact, failure is kind of mental exercise which it can be used to improve the mental growth and developing self-resilience, do you know the reason why I say such thing because failure will never been taught at school, as I know, the school system teaches students to be perfect creature, if you embrace the failure, your vision gets enlightened because every failure has offered the unlimited ways how to develop luck, whereas, success
doesn’t offer any benefit unless it offers complacency, now if we look at the professional athlete's habit, they keep practicing in order to show their best performance before the match is begun, they don’t care how severe pain they get from the physical pain such as a muscle cramp, a swollen ankle, twisted ankle, etc., now I understand about reason why not everyone can change their lives pattern because they work based on success orientation, not work based on sustainable self-development orientation, remember this; if people spend their time to work based on success orientation, their future is doomed because they will never know the basic principle of life purpose.
Remember this wise word; a master has a lot of failure more than a student who hasn’t even tried, so please don't be afraid to get failure because failure is not kind of nightmare, failure is just stripping away from your unessential thing in your mental block, the life journey will be worthwhile if there is someone dares to try something new, if they don’t get failure, they don’t create an effort, as Bruce lee said “I don’t fear a man who has 10,000 kicks at once, I fear a man who has
practiced 1 kick at 10.000 times” means, when someone is practicing his skill at 10.000 times, there are many failures must be run in order to build a sense of solidity and self-resilience, do you know what’s the purpose of failure? it helps human to remove the mental barrier which it’s trying to stop them to explore their unlimited potential and failure can salvage human's future from crisis, if our subconscious mind isn’t ready to survive, we will get more suffering than what we weren’t expecting before, we should be happy when we receive more failure because it will create loomed large of differentiation in the future.
In my insight; what causes fear of failure is the negative stereotype where most people consider failure is not something to be proud of, in my opinion; failure can teach people how to behave well since every failure can offer suffering, starting from now, we mustn't label every failure as nightmare because there is no other way how to succeed except having irresistible painful journey and repeated failure, the second cause why people fear of failure because they want to succeed instantly, besides that, they compare between other people's success story with what they experience, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.
In my insight; what causes fear of failure is the negative stereotype where most people consider failure is not something to be proud of, in my opinion; failure can teach people how to behave well since every failure can offer suffering, starting from now, we mustn't label every failure as nightmare because there is no other way how to succeed except having irresistible painful journey and repeated failure, the second cause why people fear of failure because they want to succeed instantly, besides that, they compare between other people's success story with what they experience, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.