Example of happy family



         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Example of happy family”, the reason why I choose that topic because there are many people desire to have happy family, but it doesn't happen yet in reality, if you ask me why having happy family is difficult to shape because it needs good cooperation between man and woman who are building the same purpose, building high qualification, and building strong commitment, even though we can't ensure when happy family can be built, if we combine between qualification, commitment and purpose, there is nothing can against us, what can stop us from developing our qualification, commitment and purpose is our fear, doubt and our satisfaction, happy family can be created beyond our expectation if we don't hurt our spouse's feeling with something they don't want to get, it is very simple, as long as we work hard on our capacity, I am sure we can build happy family, for the most important thing is we can keep good communication with our spouse, we share our good feeling to our spouse and we comprehend her/ his love language, let me tell you one thing, our duty right now is not demanding our spouse how to fulfill our expectation, but how we let our spouse to develop her/his own qualification, it is not easy, but if we can lower our ego, there is nothing against our path, please remember this philosophy; building happy family is like building house, we need to evaluate what is the value of house, we must choose the type of house we will use for longer time, we must discuss with our spouse related with the function of the room A, B, C, the more often we can discuss about the detailed point with our spouse, the more we can create solution easier because the detail is the source of power. 


         
        Let me give you the criteria or example how to build happy family, hopefully this strategy can help you to build sustainable family relationship, here is the first strategy how to build happy family; you can allocate your time to do something together with your spouse and your kids even though you belong to busy person in your career, this method is not easy, but if we can allocate our time to fulfill our family's emotional need, as impact, we can reduce the conflict and a sense of peace will be created by itself, 
here is the second strategy how to build happy family; you are willing to listen your spouse's deepest feeling even though you are tired, this method is simple, you just need your sincerity and conscience, if you feel this method is not easy, you can practice it in every single day by talking to yourself in the mirror, here is the third strategy how to build happy family; you don't push your opinion to your spouse even though you think your opinion is more valuable than your spouse's opinion, this method needs self-minded clearance and humility, whether we like it or not, we must admit that what we think is right is not absolutely right for others because opinion is just accumulation of perception, not representing the truth, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.