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| Pleasure is dead end |
Hi
smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you
always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I
would like to share about the topic “What does guilty pleasure mean”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people don't understand about what's guilty pleasure, if you ask me why guilty pleasure is happening to them because people do something which can evoke their wander lust, the main reason why this kind of pleasure can give a sense of guilty to human being because this pleasure can offer a low value to human's feeling, the word of "low value in pleasure" means, someone prioritizes his own pleasure by violating other people's right or someone prioritize his own pleasure but his pleasure has possibility can violate the universe's law, if we build habit which can offer guilty pleasure, meaning, we build a habit which can violate the universe's law, I say such thing not because I know everything about my life, but this is my research, pleasure in this world is not but the deceiver, let me give you example for the first activity which can offer guilty pleasure; drinking alcohol, although some countries allow this kind of activity, alcohol can offer low value in pleasure, when you see people who drink alcohol, their lives will not give so much peace after drinking alcohol, here is the second activity which can offer guilty pleasure; free sex, although some countries allow this kind of activity, free sex can offer low value in pleasure, people who do adulterine, their lives will get full of guilty because they have violated the universe's law, remember; people who break the universe's law, their lives will give a lot of trouble and their vision will see something destroying, it could be business's ruining, relationship's ruining, etc.
Remember this note; pleasure is temptation, whereas, self-control is the real pleasure, now your job is find a deep meaning of your wishes, if your wishes can help you to develop new skill set and develop self-resilient, don't stop it, the reason why I say pleasure is temptation and
self-control is the real pleasure because pleasure doesn’t require any pain
to start whereas self-control needs relentless pain to control where the
pleasure goes, now I want you to imagine you are in the car, a gas pedal represents your pleasure and a brake
pedal represents self-control, when you press a gas pedal, your car will start
running, now imagine if there is no brake, your car will bring you to the
accident or car collision, that’s reality, not joke, now my question, if
your car represents your own life, where do you bring it with? If you want
to live peacefully, you need relentless pain to control your pleasure because
most sense of pleasure is a toxic in the human’s mind, if there is no pain within your psyche, means your sense of pleasure will be exchanged with sense of guilty and your mental strength will be encumbered with greater suffering from this life because you can’t exchange your own pain with your pleasure, remember this; there is no free lunch in order to get something you want from this life, everything pleasure needs self-control, if you build guilty pleasure in your life, you will lose your self-control, if you feel this kind of action, you will not deserve to get what your life needs, I think my
explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to
improve your life, good luck.