Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “trust but verify” the main reason why I choose that topic because many people are educated to be slavery during they were childhood rather than being educated how to be an independent person, many of us are educated by parents and teachers how to trust something without verifying it, if this condition becomes habit, we must be ready to get deceived by unknown circumstance in every single day, almost all adult people forget about their own mistake where they always consider all opportunities can be obtained by trusting it, but in the fact, not all opportunities can bring the good fortune, opportunity is just testing our awareness, as long as we don’t verify about the opportunity's background or its history, we let the dangerous thing will destroy our inner peace, in the real life, many people are just making split second decision when they get opportunity, whereas every opportunity can deceive us at anytime when we don't verify it first, so before we sell our trust to other people, it must be exchanged with logical reason first, remember this advice; "verify something is the beginning strategy how to reduce the pain of regret in the future", we would better to lose opportunity rather than being slavery from our misstep, we can’t always have new opportunity to rewrite history in our life journey, but the first thing we can do is stop being a slave when we are capable to do something useful, if there is someone who commits to become a slave because they deliberately sell their own trustworthy to something unverified, if this condition becomes habit, it will become perpetual habit and we will lose our self-confidence as bad consequence.
Basically our pain is not coming from affliction, but it comes from our mistrust, we must leave behind something undeserved to learn if we want to get something deserved to learn, it is just like the proverb “if we don’t sow something good, we don’t reap something good”, if we don’t leave something undeserved to learn, we will never get something we deserved to learn, that’s law, trust is like passing the key to someone before he enters your palace's territory, if you want to sell your trust to other people, you must be ready to get disillusioned when your expectation doesn't match with reality, this kind of perception must be built earlier if we want to get stronger and better, please don’t sell your trust to anybody before you find someone who can appreciate your personality, in the real life, people who have no integrity, they tend to spend their time to sell something cheap, tantalized and it's unqualified to win situation in any transaction, remember this; selling trust doesn’t have same meaning with act of selling your skill set to the job you have got in the company, if you commit to sell your trust, it will take a long time for preparation because your background will be verified first by the company, but when you sell your skill set in the job, you will get money but you will not get the power of authority to manage all systems in the company, starting from today, you have to practice how to recognize your personality, weakness point, strength point and self-love long time ago before your preparation will be needed in the future, maybe you will ask me “when I will get rewarded from selling my preparation?” the answer; you will get rewarded at coincides you sell your preparation has matched with your personal integrity, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.