Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Plan ahead and prepare”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone wish to plan ahead and prepare for the worst result, if you ask me why we need to plan ahead because we don't know what kind of reality that life brings to us, we all know that life brings reality which contains two things, it is fear or enlightenment, the best attitude how to face reality is empty our ego and we behave as if we know nothing about what we face right now, if we show our ego and try to fight reality, so reality will offer us a fear and confusion, before reality offers us a fear, we must build a plan where it is designed to ensure that we focus on the specific area we want to go through, after we create a plan ahead, we prepare for facing the worst situation, meaning, we need to strip down our expectation and we get rid of something that can burden our negative emotional feeling, the most important is not forcing our plan to face reality, but how to prepare our mentality to face reality, if we just make a plan and try to fit it into reality, as impact, reality will drive us away from our plan and reality will destroy our entire plan, our mentality is more important than bunch of plan ahead, the reason why we need to plan ahead in order to discipline our mentality to the goal, not to push our mentality to crush down reality, if our plan can't hit the goal, it doesn't really matter, what matter is our mentality is ready to face something that gives a new experience to us, even though reality is neutral, we must prepare the best response in order to save our mentality from depression state, if our mentality isn't ready to give a good response when reality gives us a new experience, we will consider everything in reality is enemy or fear.
The real preparation comes to what we always do every day, if we just consume the information which isn't needed by our inborn skill, we will create a new fear in reality and we will be scary person wherever we go, as I tell you before, reality is not giving us fear or happy, reality is giving us new enlightenment, in order to feel enlightened, we must crush down our ego before it is trying to block what reality offers to us, basically reality is like sales person, he is trying to offer us something we don't know before, we only have an option; run away from reality's offer or we just read the situation and not to disappoint reality's offer, if we choose the option "read the situation", meaning, we must leave our cleverness, leave our past experience, leave our past achievement, leave our pride and leave our reputation, that's important note, if we can leave something we possessed in the past, we will get a new lesson from reality and we will not dare to give bad response to life because we know reality is the best teacher for us, the worst response that most people do is reject reality and try to lecture reality, as human being, we aren't equipped by God with the capacity to reject reality, so we aren't qualified enough to reject quality, the more we try to lecture reality, we try to burden our lives with the depression state, here is the first strategy how to give good response to reality; we empty our mind and we let reality whispers something to us, if we build attitude like that, reality will not give us a fear, here is the second strategy how to give good response to reality; we don't focus on what we hate from reality, but we focus how reality teaches us, if we build attitude like that, our mentality will be strengthened by reality, here is the third strategy how to give good response to reality; we consider reality is like customer, meaning, we don't react when it doesn't demand us to do and we don't reject when reality does something to us, if we consider reality is like the customer, we will not stop improving ourselves even though reality try to reject our service, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.