Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “How to become an expert”, the main reason why I choose that because many people start to complain when they find something weird or unusual to which happened into them, whereas study to stay remaining is the beginning path how to become an expert in every situation, sometimes not all the things we have can match perfectly with outer circumstance, we are faced with two option; endure it or leave it, if we prefer to endure, we must feel so much pain during adaptation, but if we prefer to leave, we will never become an expert, please consider it for moment, I don't ask you to stay forever in the circumstance you hated, but learn something until you are ready to step to the higher challenge, all is started with the tranquility of your mind, if you think every minute is your miserable, you will feel like enduring it in every hour of adversity, you must learn how to stay calm, if you don't find your own way, you can see what other people do when they feel in the same way as you do, don't think outer circumstance is kind of punishment, but you need to consider every circumstance you meet is going to direct you to the right direction, the first pain you will feel during you adapt with your self improvement is you accept many rejections within yourself and you are not going to be happy to do something, that's normal, if all circumstances can make you happy, means, you don't grow well, sometimes you need to ignore your sense of miserable if you want to be mature, here is the first quality you need to do if you want to become an expert is curb your desire and find your specialty by practicing what your inner born saying to you every day, the reason why we need to do this because our desire can block our practical experience growth and sometimes our desire can make us feel guilty about the result we don't expect.
Becoming an expert doesn’t mean we will never mistake after we do the right thing, instead we will dive into our deep mistake and we feel contemplated, that’s part of understanding process, sometimes we need to master every failure journey for long time period before we get into higher level of disappointment experience, that's method how to become an expert in any circumstance, as the Samurai expert, Miyamoto Musashi in Japan said “ your mind is your best weapon”, means, don’t ever fill your mind with circumstance, but fill your mind as the last chance to adapt, if you keep thinking like this, you will not waste every opportunity you meet, so don’t act following base on customary belief but act base on your instinctive idea, that's simple strategy to grow our life journey, sometimes we need to keep analyzing about our strength and weaknesses point in every day rather than thinking about other people's weaknesses, to become an expert, we need to stay curious about little thing we don't know about the universe and make it alive within our life experience and let other people find you and collect your expertise, if you think becoming an expert can make you feeling alone, you can say to yourself “I know my mind is going to ask me to follow this game, unfortunately I am going to observe you but I don’t join your game”, that’s part of mind hacking, sometimes our mindset can kill ourselves when we don’t stay alert about what mind tells something to us, here is the second quality you need to do if you want to become an expert is don’t expect good, but expect wrong, the reason why you need to behave like this because every good thing will stop you to learn more, whereas expect wrong can create the variant of new learning method and you will feel wiser although you never imagine how to become wise person I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.