Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Expected value” the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people want to can change their opinion, the main cause why people don't want to change their opinion because they are self-righteous and they are self-motivated by their arrogance to keep behaving opinionated, this kind of people tend to reject to adapt and follow their own fake belief, many people don’t realize their the quality of opinion is caused by their knowledge and perception, as long as they don’t increase the frequency of what they learn, their opinion will prophesy their future with something they have learned in the past and what they have left in the past, there are two thing of opinion model; the first model is mistrust about own self and the second model is arrogant opinion, let me explain, someone who has two kind of opinion model, he usually keeps behaving like what people always did in the past mistake, he tends to magnify the past problem and then he cultivates it to become severely problem into the real life, this kind of person will never get new opportunity to bring something good in the future because they keep implanting the wrong seed in the ground, if someone wants to get out of the evil habit's circle, he has to cut down the root of evil from what he implants in the subconscious mind by doing something good constantly though he must feel an irresistible pain in every day.
Don't use opinion as value, but measure the difficult level of problem as value |
Our duty as the next generation is stop adding the same problem because we will never get enough time to fix the same problem which had happened in the past, no matter how hard we try, problem will end itself and problem doesn't need to wait to be solved by human because problem is just the first initial step to move us into to higher test position, all we need to do right now is we need unbiased thought and observe about new problem which may need our opinion or problem solving skill, although we have overcome one hundred of similar problem, it doesn't mean there is no problem tomorrow, so there is always more than 1000 new problem are awaiting our skill set / our opinion, don't consider there is no rest in the life journey as long as the human were born, here is the first thing you must do if you want your value can prevent something bad is asking an advice to someone are being able to solve your problem, or, you can take a note from someone who has shared something about his personal life experience, the reason why you need to use this strategy because you will unlearn your unproductive mistake and also you can use people's experience to add your vocabulary of mind.
Here is the second thing you must do if you want your value can prevent something bad is learn how to think outside the box, means, you will not use your first opinion which you usually use it when you think at the first time, and then you can add up people's opinion into yours, for example; at the first opinion; you always say to yourself "what if I failed again?", now after you think outside the box, you make the second opinion "what kind of failure if I wouldn't try? and "what benefit if I would try one more time?", there is no impossible to do as long as you choose to endure the problem in life, don't think every opinion is problem, sometimes the highest problem in the daily life also has a restricted time, problem is designed to increase your mental age / skill set, when you have increased value, your opinion will be listened by many people who have endured same problems, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.