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| Use social intelligence to adapt with other people |
Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back
with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness,
health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the
topic “Social emotional learning”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people get a trouble when they must adapt with social community, many of them feel annoyed when they must conform with other people's willingness, not few people get frustrated because of nonconformity of argument with other people, in order to minimize social conflict, we must calm our emotion by staying away from the social interaction and we create a mission which can distract our focus from social conflict, the more we put our hope to human to do what we love, God will make us disappointed with the result and He will destroy our hope as well, the reason why we need to do social emotional learning because we will live in different waves of characters, the more we hope other people to do something we hope, the more we get disappointment from what we hope, it would better we stop hoping other people and we start to work on our potential, there is wise word "if you invest good character, you will reap good purpose", the meaning; we will be guided our good character to do something good if we create our long haul purpose, if we don't want to adapt with good character, the more we reap bad purpose, that's consequence, starting from now; offer yourself to train other people with your expertise if you want to create social emotional intelligence which can connect with other people's reaction.
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| Social emotional adaptation |
If other people give good reaction after you offer your expertise to train them, it means, your offer has touched their hope, unfortunately not many people apply this strategy because many of them are indifferent with other people's lives, remember; social emotional intelligence will not grow within our behavior if we compromise with our egoism, that's big challenge, there is always mental block where it prevents us to do something better, a mental block always comes from comfort zone where it always prevents us to do something differently, if we aren't strong enough to fight our incompetence, at least, we don't destroy our enthusiasm by hurting other people's lives, if we just follow our natural character, as impact, our mental block will immobilize our productivity, that's bad news, at this moment I would like to share some strategies how to increase your social emotional intelligence, hopefully these strategies can upgrade your quality of life, here is the first strategy how to increase your social emotional intelligence; do something useful for other people even though you don't want to do as emotionally, the main reason why you need to apply this strategy because it can bring some improvements for your blind spot area, here is the second strategy how to increase your social emotional intelligence; give a reward to other people's achievement after they make a progress, if you apply this strategy, other people will remember your kindness and one day you will get the same circumstance from other people who don't know you closer, I think my explanation is enough,
hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good
luck.