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| Complain definition |
Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Complain definition”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people can hide their complain when they feel something annoyed their lifestyle's standard, if you ask me why not many people can hide their complain because they are used to express their complain every time they see/listen/feel something which is not congruent with their own standard of thinking, the source of complain is coming from the state of comparative between the individual's high expectation and reality, people who consider reality as low standard, they automatically start complaining and their feeling is motivated by their sense of arrogance, the problem is about mindset, not reality, the definition of complain is unwilling to accept reality, the reason why people aren't willing to accept reality because they consider their expectation is always better than reality, besides that, they can't bear to taste the pain of adaptation which is offered by reality, in order to remove act of complaining; a person must stop comparing between his high standard of expectation with something has happened now, remember; every human isn't entitled to demand something because life is not designed to fulfill what human hope, life is the kind of place where it always offers challenge and uncertainty, all we need to do as human being is start appreciating what God does something for us, that's recovery action how to heal from the pain of complaining, in my opinion; reality is result of adding something which is calculated in the past, meaning; we receive something from reality based on what we invested something into our habit, if we invested bad habit, we will reap the effect of bad habit today.
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| Be grateful for everything has happened to you |
If we don't want to get trouble from reality, we mustn't invested bad thing in our behavior or our daily habit, do you know why? because bad behavior has potential to attract something worse than what we imagine, the key how to improve our life is doing something which can give you a high energy, such as reading the book, achieving your daily goal, visiting the place where it can offer inspirational story, etc. remember this; outer circumstance will not dictate what you do if you focus to improve your inner circumstance, basically outer circumstance has no authority to influence what you do or what you feel, unless you allow outer circumstance to control your life, having self-control towards our focus is more important than feel about something uncertain, here is the first strategy you need to do if you want to stop complaining about reality; you must pretend yourself like a guest, not as the house owner, if you behave like a guest, you have no opportunity to complain because you don't have any authority to do everything you want in that house, imagine the planet earth is like a house and you come to earth as guest, that's mindset you need to have in your mind, if you aren't satisfied about reality, build something useful with your creativity, here is the second strategy you need to do if you want to stop complaining about reality; you must realize that the planet earth is not the best place to live, if you think such thing, you have no opportunity to complain because you realize the planet earth is not the best place to live because you realize the planet earth is offering more disaster than pleasure, I think my explanation is enough hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.