Hi, good reader, howdy? welcome back with me, today I would like to share about the topic "Self-love and confidence", the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone builds self-love or feel confident, if you ask me why not everyone builds self-love because they don't have enough reason to feel grateful about what they have received so far, the problem why many people feel desperate easily because they lack of reason to feel grateful about the situation they get into it, some people try to escape from reality when they get pain from life pressure, it sounds easy but difficult, do you know why I say it is not easy to escape from reality because people don't want to hold responsible for what they have done in the past, here is my conclusion; people get pain of anxiety or lack of confident not because they lack of knowledge or experience, but they lack of reason to feel grateful, in order to feel good or confident, people must build some inspiring activities, e.g. develop their skill, practice gratitude, develop a passion, organize a simple to-do list, if we realize that our life control is under control by us, we must increase our learning ability, e.g. try something new, explore in the nature, find out the critical problem and solve it, remember this note; lack of dopamine will cause lack of self-motivation to grow more, as we know that dopamine is a hormone that plays an important role in our brain's reward system, so if we want to feel confident or self-love, we must have enough reason to love what we do and also we must reward after we accomplish something we never created before, our brain system will strengthen its hormone when we give it a reward and our brain system will run normally when we don't give it a reward.
The first thing we must do if we want to feel confident is evolve self-love, meaning, we will do something not because of people's appraisal or waiting people's money, but we purely do something because we challenge our limitation to do it, the major key how to unlock our self-confidence is having a deep curiosity towards what we haven't accomplished, if we don't love what we do, who else can represent our future because there is no human can guarantee our future, if we want what we want exists, we must do something as if there were no single person is capable to represent what we do, that's strategy, starting from now, we shouldn't rely on other people's help easily, if we go on easy on us, tomorrow will bring new difficult for us, if we go hard on us, tomorrow will bring new enlightenment for us, here is the second thing we must do if we want to feel confident is don't concern to what we can't do, meaning, we are not allowed to think something which it is beyond our capacity or imagination, let me give you an example how to build self-love or confident; you love to talk about automotive / motor when you hang out with someone you trust, at that time you try to collect new knowledge regarding automotive and finally you try to build your passion by opening the workshop for repairing a car or motor, if you dedicate to what you do, your habit will strengthen your uniqueness and confidence, based on psychological research; our self-love and confidence will gain new strength if we discipline our action towards a glorious purpose. I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an insight how to improve your life, good luck.