Hi, good reader, howdy? welcome back with me, hopefully your career is going well, today I would like to share about the topic "Unrequited feelings", the main reason why I choose that topic because many young people are too careless to find love, in order to get the power of love, people must give something they love to others first, that's basic requirement, we can't receive something big if we just give something ordinary or give something worthless to others, the big reason why many young people get unrequited love because they treat a love like a stuff, meaning, they just think how to receive something important from love only without trying to give as much as what love needs, remember; as long as we just think how to get love, we will never get a true love, do you know why I say such thing? Because we live unfairly and we don't take serious action how to treat love well, the first thing we need to do how to treat love is we must give something worthy to ourselves more than what others can do for us, meaning, we invest spend major time to focus how to build the inner power through a new skill we want to learn and we don't let others to dictate what we can do, remember this note: to build the power of credibility, we must give something worthy to others, but if we want to build love, we must prioritize what we can do to ourselves with a good mood and a clear direction rather than we can do something for others, we must chase new ability if we don't want others are going to give us with a unrequited love, maybe you think it's simple method, but it's difficult one because we must conquer our darkness first if we want to gain new ability, basically ego always hates to accept new change, so before ego will do something worse to us, we must challenge ourselves to break ego by doing something crazy until our old habit will break from its old path, the key to receive a true love from others is we must take care our good mood and our enthusiasm until our unproductive habit and our fixed mindset will leave us.
The reason why many people get unrequited feelings because they pursue what don't deserve them, as long as what we seek doesn't need us, we will feel difficult to find it, but if what we seek really needs us, we will not find difficult to find it, our job as human being is not forcing reality to do something what we want, but we demand ourselves to feel unpleasant during adapting with new ability, starting from now, please don't spend your major time to pursue someone who doesn't deserve your love, true love will come to your life when you don't seek it, true love will come to your life when you treat yourself better than anyone can do for you, remember this: in order to build the power of love, you must do something for yourself until others can't do it for you for everlasting, as long as others can do something for you more than what you can do for yourself, meaning, you can't build a true love, at this moment I would like to share some strategies how to avoid unrequited love, here is the first strategy how to avoid unrequited feeling is don't chase people no matter the condition you may face, the main reason why you must apply this strategy because its strategy will help you to save your future life from unrequited love and also you will find uniqueness when you stop chasing others, remember: don't ever think others can help you to provide what you want because life belongs to personal responsibility, here is the second strategy how to avoid unrequited feeling is don't find a way which can make you to feel pleasure easily, do you know why? Because most pleasures are in the world are designed to deceive your life, true love is built from build sense of relying between you and Almighty God, if you can't build a good connection between you and Him, you will always find a unrequited feeling once you make connection with other people, if you want to save your future love, all you need to do is love Allah more than you can give your love to your family, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an insight how to improve your life, good luck.