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| Anger person's mind is perplexed by self-doubt |
Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “How to get rid of anger issue”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone can win against their anger issue, actually anger is not designed to give the bad influence, anger is part of self-defense mechanism where it is used to criticize what we do, so we don't need to get rid of anger, what we need to do is how to reduce bad influence which comes from the worthless information, anger is not the serious issue, as long as we can break the connection from our obsession, anger will lose its direction and its influence, so basically anger can be dangerous to us when we add our sense of obsession to control something we hate, if we want to get rid of anger issue, we must accept the situation without complaint, I just want to remind you negative feeling will not give a bad thing to our lives when we don't feed it with our obsession to control, negative feeling will be neutral when we connect with the activity where it can bring us to the positive impact, e.g. reading book, taking a nap, positive and negative power will bring harmony effect when we use it for the kindness, for example; your children will do something dangerous, if you alert them with negative power, your children will acknowledge your warning, so negative power is not always bringing negative effect as long as we know how to use its power, sometimes optimism can bring negative effect when we don't balance it with sense of fear, optimism and fear will bring a new hope as long as we don't put our obsession to control, let optimism and fear live harmoniously, we don't need to get rid of one of them, remember this; anger energy is really bad for making life cultivation, what we can do when anger's energy is rising is stopping to focus what makes us hatred and observing it, the most dangerous thing is the evil character, not anger, basically evil character is the fuel which can bring bad side in our behavior.
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| Anger is part of depression |
You will never be able to get rid of anger if you try to prioritize your obsession or your pleasure, you must be responsible for every decision you choose, whatever you start, your habit will receive what you demand to your own mind, here is the positive self-talk you need to remind to yourself; "I must do more than what may anger can do, if I let my anger is rising, my logic can't work more", if you don’t want to get the bad effect from your anger, you must learn the consequence first, that’s strategy how to allocate your focus energy, if you don't focus on what you hate, you will never get angry to any situation, remember this; good or bad is the part of emotional aspect, please don't focus to your over obsession, all you need to do right now is use your energy, valuable time and limited resource to serve what your vision needs, the key how to get rid of obsession is reduce your fear by doing something productive or something which can distract your focus to your consciousness, remember; every angry person is always losing his consciousness, before he enters deeply into his unconsciousness mind, you must do something happier or find someone who can remind you to do the kindness, here is the first strategy how to get rid of anger issue; stop focusing what you can't endure, start focusing how to try again when we want to know about the result, the more you control out of your capable hand, the more you increase your obsession, finally your anger will increase its power, here is the second strategy how to get rid of anger issue; share your happiness is more often than what your anger can do for you, happiness is going to be simpler when we try to appreciate the little thing we can't create, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.