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| Bad thought always suspects what others think |
Hi good reader, Howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always get imbued with the abundance of health, wealth and happiness, today I would like to share about the topic "How to get over something that hurt you", the main reason why I choose that topic because many people consider whatever they dislike is always hurting them, in fact, there is nothing can hurt people's mind except their permission, if you ask me why not many people can succeed to overcome the unpleasant feeling because they believe that the unpleasant thing is always bad for their lives, it is not true, do you know why I say such thing because the unpleasant thing is the only way how to upgrade our fixed belief, sometimes we need to adapt with something they don't like at the first time, remember; as long as what hurts you can't kill you, it can strengthen your mentality, what hurts you is not coming from what you don't know, what hurts you represents your comfort zone level, how to get over something that hurt you is begun from what you develop in your knowledge, if you always fill in your brain memory with something entertaining, you will get shocked when you meet with higher pressure from something you don't know is approaching you, what our soul needs is strong mentality, not weak mentality, in order to strengthen our mentality, you must put yourself in the area where it doesn't give you comfort but it is very interesting to be learned by you, basically, you must invest something that can make your brain works in one focus area, if you succeed, you can try to learn a new skill that majority of people aren't willing to learn, that's another option how to increase your life value, remember; your life is like the beautiful garden, so you must cultivate your garden by implanting new seed, watering them every day, cut down the weeds, spread with the pesticide to keep the bugs away, if you don't cultivate your like the beautiful garden, other people will not visit your life because you don't build anything valuable.
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| The complexity of mind |
At this moment, I would like to share some several strategies how to get over something that hurt you, here is the first strategy how to get over something that hurt you; you must believe that problem doesn't approach you if you know how to handle it, meaning, you must adapt with the problem that makes you interested to learn it, if you can handle problem, so the problem will help you how to monetize it, what blocks from getting peace is we avoid the problem and we put our hatred feeling into it, here is the second strategy how to get over something that hurt you; you lower your high expectation, meaning, you don't compare between what you expect with what you receive from reality, if you can make both in one row, you will not get hurt, what makes you hurt is your ignorance and your hatred towards something you dislike, here is the third strategy how to get over something that hurt you; don't push yourself too hard to control what you can't do, meaning, you accept 100% about the circumstance that you can't control, if you try to control something beyond your inner capacity, you always get hurt by default, here is the fourth strategy how to get over something that hurt you; upgrade your own standard to the higher one, the reason why you need to do it because problem doesn't like if you stay the same like yesterday's person, if you upgrade your own standard, you will get bigger problem that can increase your self-worth, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this information can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.